Maulana Nusrat Abbas Bukhari

Maulana Nusrat Abbas Bukhari
 
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Location: Qum
Nationality: Iran

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Kuch arsy say mery sath yun ho rha hai k mein jb bilkul akeli hoti hun to m sakoon or khush rehti hun, mjy khuda mehsoos hota hai magar jesy he m kisi s bat karti hn like working place pay ya apny gar m kisi s bat karti hn to jesy he ye Allah ko mehsoos hony ka rabta toot’ta hai mein bht be chain ho jati hn mera dil gabrata hai, mein depression m chali jati hun. Ya kbi agr m outing ya shopping wagera k liye niklun to b m bht depression m chali jati hn mjy kya karna chahye? Esa koe rasta ya amal k jis s ye rabta na tooty ?

Yeah ache baat hay kay apka duniya main dil nahe lagta, but Islam humain jahan, ibadaat aur Allah subhantala say rabtay ka hukum daita hay wahan Socitey main rehna aur sab say rabta rekhna bhe sekhata hay. Kionkay ager Allah subhantala kee makhlooq razi hoge, Allah subhantala bhe razi hoga Logon say baat kerna , milna bhe Allah subhantala kee khatir karain tu app hamesha khoosh rehain gee

Droodh kee ik tasbeh din main perhain. Fajar kee namaz kay baad Astagfar kee ik tasbeh perhain

InshahAllah sab thek hoga

Facing very serious problem but not finding a solution. My anger is the only hurdle between me and my Allah. Whenever I feel anger I feel like I'm away from Allah. I want to feel him all the time. I try to stay cool but at working place whenever people do wrong or try their tactics to lower my position my anger comes out. How i can control my anger?

Best is you do Astagfar and recite salwat

How to ask Allah swt for the reappearence of Imam e zamana atfs in namaz e shab

You can pray in dua e qunoot, dua faraj.

1.After a 5 years of relationship with a girl can I marry her to protect her name and avoid to spoil her name in the society going against istikhara if it has come no ?
2. Is there any other solution if i get istikhara negative and still want to marry her ?

Marrying anyone is not issue, for marriage first need research then go for estekhra, and when u rely on estekhra then why engaged someone 5 yrs?
If your family satisfied and her family, then give sadqa and get married.

I would like to perform an istikhara for my brother's marriage. What details would I need and how do I go around it?

First investigate about the person, then you can do istkhara

I'm suffering from low spirituality since many months now. I don't know if it's because of my self which needs spiritual purification or my surroundings. I'm living in (Location removed) where there's no one I know who's a Shia and my parents too Non-Shia. I'm in taqiya from all. But it didn't matter during the first year of my reverting. Why then now I'm facing difficulty? If it's due to lack of spiritual purification then could you tell me the steps I need to follow in order to get purification

Definitely sorroundings have effects but you have to check your routine.
Do astghfar 100 times after fajar. Spend some time on prayer mat just examining your self.
Do tawasul with imam e zaman ajtf

My son sometimes says that bhoot ke khwaab aa rahe hai? Shayad woh cartoon me kuch dekha hoga fir ayatul kursi aur naade Ali padhke hum sulaate hai usko agar fir fir utha hai!. what should I do, koi taveez pehna de use? he is just 4 yrs old

Ayatul kursi and Nad e Ali is the best along with 4 surrah Qul
Also control his Tv times and better to involve him with physical activity games

I have a question about a experience I have . It's about a girl of (removed) that is born is in the (removed) (western life).
She is known as a silent person who is smart and who is being known as a person with a good Akhlak (good intentions)and sensitive heart. She is a real walking example for everyonewho sees her culture, religion and everything. Altough she is from inside not that happy at all. She has really abusive parents who are hitting her mentally and physically and are always telling her that she is doing nothing right and telling her that she is a satan and her dad is also calling her by animal names like donkey.
Her parents both have negative opinions towards her. Like they are not satisfied with her and really unthankful with everything what she choses. They think everything she does is haram and is against the shariah law.
The girl is a really inteligent person who is a great inspiration that cannot be denied by everyone and I think its disrespectful and a shame that those parents are acting like that to her. While no one can deny she is also a inspiration towards their own parents and family.
I understand that parents want to protect her from everything but what her parents are doing is really disrespectfull! And can be done on a different way!


The girl herself has stood up for her rights multiple times but nothing happend and it made it only worse like her parents got more abusive and are hitting/beating her and closing her up like an animal.

My question is what are the right of daughter especially an adult woman . And do you have any tips to that young lady the most broken part of all is that she is from the outside always really happy while in reality she is dripping blood from inside. One of her muslim teachers recomended her to go to a psychologist but her mom told her not to do that (afraid for a real shame towards her and a husband) and told her that Allah is her psychologist and to always ask him!
And is it allowed for parents to deside when to let their daughter wear a hijab. Cause she started wearing it from a young age (also in an abusive way like her mom screamed to do that). The girl herself did not have any problems to start wearing a hijab but my opinion its disrespectfull to force that way!
Her parents are only decdiding everything for her while she may not decide anything at all other wise they say everything is haram what she decides.

Well this issue is due to the environment they are living in where parents have fear.
Definitely they love her but they way they are behaving is not good.
I think parents need to be told that if she uses her rights in westren society then they can't do anything. It's better treat her with love and respect. On the other hand that girl has to understand the meaning of life. It's her test while being good human because Allah subhantala tests good people. So she needs to pass through this test as well.
Better find good person for marriage and live the way she wants within the limitations given by Isla,

What are the ways to make strong connection with Sayeda Fatimah Zahraس?
Like To be her true lover?
And how can I give satisfaction to her heart?

Tawasul with Hazrat Zahra SA, Hadees e kisa at least once a week. Do wajibaat so she will be happy. Focus on different angles of life which includes: Ibadaat, home, child upbringing. A women have to fill all; must be helpful daughter or sister or mother or wife.
One thing that is most important is tawasul with Imam Zaman ajtf

Kuch time pehly me ne ap se aik question kiya tha ke me confuse tha apni shadi ke liye cause me kisi aur ko pasand karta tha and meri ammi meri shadi kisi aur se karwana chahti thi.
Me ne sabr kia aur us larki se February me shadi kar li. Because mera dil nai tha us larki ki taraf to is liye me marriage consummate nai kar saka.
Meri job UAE me to me shadi ke aik week baad hi job pe aa gya.
Mera ab dil nai karta ghar jany ko aur na mera dil karta h ab ghar walo se baat karny ko.
Can you please guide me ke agar marriage ko itny time tak consummate na kia jay to nikkah rehta h ya nai?

Behtar hay app apni ghar jain and try to live with that because life is short. Hurting someone will create problems in your life


اغا میرے کچھ سوالات ہے جس کی وجہ سے میری زندگی بہت تباہ ہو گئی ہے.

میں وسواس کا مریض ہوں.ارت اور نجاست کے مسائل میں بری طرح گرفتار ہوں. کوئی نھی مجھے پسند نہیں کرتا ہے اور میری بیماری کی وجہ سے لوگ مجھے پاگل کہتے ہیں… حتی میری بیوی بھی میری بیماری کی وجہ سے مجھے پاگل کہتی ہے اور بہت تکلیف دیتی ہے.

میں اب اس قابل. ہی نہیں ہوں کہ وسواس سے لا پرواہی کروں… مجھے کچھ سمجھ نہیں آتا ہے… دل کہتا ہے کہ مر جاؤں کیوں کہ مجھے کوئی سمجھتا ہی نہیں.. مجھے بہت تکلیف ہوتی ہے جب میری بیوی بھی مجھے پاگل کہتی ہے.

میری زندگی میں کوی نہیں ہے جو مجھے سمجھے… بہت دپریشن میں ہوں.

میں کیا کروں کے میری طبیعت ٹھیک ہو جائے. مجھے کوئی میرا. مددگار اور خیال رکھنے والا مل جائے… اور میری بیماری کو سمجھنے اور اس سے نجاے میں مدد کرے… کیا عمل کرو… کیا دعآ کرو.


اسکے علاوہ میرے وسواس کا حل کیا ہے… میں دبئی میں رہتا ہوں اور مال مارکیٹ آفس ہاسپٹل جاتا ہوں تو کوئی بھی جگہ اگر ہاتھ لگ جائے تو پاک کرنے لگتا ہوں کیونکہ ہر جگہ پوچھا لگانے والے غیر کتابی کافر ہے. … واشروم بھی کئی گھنٹے جاتا ہوں اور مجھے پیشاب کے خطرے نکلتے ھے اور انگلش واشروم میں اسےبرا کرنے نہیں آتا ہے. اپ ایک عالم ہے اور روحانی طور پر باپ کے برابر ہے… میرا کوئی بڑا نہیں ہے جو مجھے سمجھے پلیز میرے لئے راہ حل بتائیں.

Iska best hal ignorance hay. App tawajho he nahe dain, husnay zan rekhain kay jaga paak hay kionkay jab tak nijasat ka yaqeen nahe tu masla nahe.

Ziada serious na lain kuch chezoon ko. Aehsta aehsta change karain. Allah subhantala say dua karain.

Peshaab Kay qatroon ka ilaaj hay, pani ziada pian, white chanay kahain bhonay hoye, masany kamzoor honay kee wajha say bhe qatray atay hain, relax reha karain. Islam easy religion hay.

I would like to increase the noor in my heart and change my aklaqh, to be a person with a pure heart and to become optimistic.

I am used to read duas and zyarat everyday, but I just realised that doing all these, without a good aklaqh, is not efficent.


Please, do you have some advices that I can do. I try but still disturbed by shaytan.

Alhamdulillah you have realized. This is also a blessing.
Try to listen to lectures available online.
My Ramadhan 2019 lectures will help you InshaAllah.
Other thing that is important is your relation with others, behaviour,
positive thinking, doing work on it's time.
These things help you InshaAllah.

My engagement has happened but I am in love with another because she is good behaviour and good manners and does all the wajibat. Please give any dua or namaz to help me.

Me apni kaifiyat pesh kar raha hun wo ye ki me namaz se shab daily padta hun aur tauba wa istegfaar bhi karta hun. Jab raat ko akele me ye karta hun to aisa lagta hai ki khuda se karib hua hun aur sukoon milta hai but jab subhe hoti hai aur din me masroof hote hai to apne daily routine ki tarah ho jata hun aur gunah bhi hojate hai but maloom nahi hota to aise me kya karu. Aur ek ye baat pareshan kar ke rakkhi hai ki me jisko pasand karta hun wo college me sath padti hai aur ham baat karte the daily aur islamic baate kiya karte the aur problem bataya karte the but ab ham ne choud diya hai. But dil us jagah par laga hai aur baat ye hai ki jab dil bechain hota hai to khuda ke samne munajat karne me lutf aata hai. Mene kitni koshish ki bhula ne ki aur dua bhi but nahi bhul pata. Aur jaan na ye hai ki khuda mere se razi hai ya nahi aur Imam e zamana a.t.f.s ki mulaqaat ki tadap kaise laye?

App acha kaam kee try kertay rehain, yeh manajaat jab bhe muqa milta hay karain. Baqi jahan engagement hay wahan dil lagain. Life short hay. Don't live in your past. Future ka soochain.

Kindly tell me that how I'm able to know that Imam-e-Zamana (ATFS) is agree with me, I mean whatever I'm doing (Aamaal) in my daily routine He is seeing all that, so if I want to know that Imam Mehdi (ATFS) is happy with all my activities or not then what can I do or how can I able to know that?
Kindly, explain me in detail what I do to make my time of Imam agree and happy with me.

Wajibaat per amal karain, check it relationship around your family freinds, concentrate on your studies,
Quran recitation, make people around you happy, helping others, find in which field you will be specialist and serve Imam e Zaman ajtf
This way you will be near to Imam e Zaman ajtf

My parents recently set me up with a man for marriage purposes; however, I just don’t click with him. He’s a nice guy when it comes to religiousness but other than that I feel like we’re not compatible which is why I just don’t feel any sort of attraction towards him. I don’t enjoy our conversations neither do I look forward to getting to know him. Is it okay to reject a religious person just because you don’t click with them? I have been so confused and would really appreciate any advice.

There is a hadith if a religious proposal come don't ignore otherwise fasaad in society will come. My advice is accept this proposal inshaAllah things will be more attractive

Mujhe ek relative ne bataya ki mere betay ko us kaafir ladki ke chakkar se mowakkilon ke zariyae alag karne ko. Maine istikhara dekhaya toh achcha aaya.
Par kya en good helping jinnat (mowakkilon) se kaam karvana jayaz hai ya haraam?

Every work have effects if you do it.
You don't know how they work. There is good way and bad way also so I don't know who and how they working


Aur pls dusra amal yeh bhi bataiye k mai unko apni taraf kaise rakhun. Pehle kabhi aisa nahi huwa hai. Aaj kal bohat gusse mei rehte hai mei. Unse baat bhi nahi kar pati hu. Ek hi room mei dar dar k rehti hu k kuch baat pe gussa na ajae aur hamare soch vichar mel nahi kha rahe hai mei kuch bolna Chatti hu woh kuch ka kuch matlab nikal lete hai. Baat khatam hone se pehle hi puri baat bhi nahi sunte. Mashallah se namaz mei bhi paband hogae hai 3 time masjid jate hai yeh bohat khushi ki baat hai mere liye q k pehle kabhi aise paband nahi the. Yeh dosto ki wajha se masjid mei jane lage hai per unhi dosto k wajha se unka bahar jana bohat zyada hogaya hai. Dinner dosto k saath phir ghar pe bhi badi badi dawat karte hai wohi dosto ki phir bhi phone sab chalta rehta hai. Mere dil aur dimag dono kaam nahi karta k kya karu kaise karu har baat pe gussa ajata hai time nahi dete hame. Please kuch bataiye aisi koi dua ya namaz jisse yeh masla hal hojae. Mei nahi chahti k unke dosto k saath rishta tute per kam hojae hum sabko unki zaroorat hai.

Insaan kamzoor hay, ka bhe kuch acha hota hay kabhe kuch. App apni tarf say pora acha kijye. Indirectly aeshaas dilye
aur ager kisse dost say family relation hain tu unko mesage dijye balance life zarore hay but ghar main bhe sakoon hona chaye tabhe koi ghar per tawajhoo daita hay. App namaz main dua kijye
Allah subhantala halat behter farmain
aur thora relax rehain. App bhe busy rehain takay unko aehsaas hoo

Sawal yeh k jab bhi koi acha kam krta hu ya kabhi thode dino tak namaz regularly padne lagta hu ya sadka dene lagta hu aur jab dusre ko dekhta hu k ye namaz nahi pad raha hai ya gunah kr raha hai to dilme ghamand mehsus hone lagta hai. Me boht koshish krtahu k isse bachu , pata hai yeh neki ko khajata hai, aur buri baat hai pr dil se nikaltahi nahi.
Kya karu?
Koi solution hoto please.
Me try krta huto k sochu k bhai me to kuch nahi sab Allah ka diya hua hai pr nahi horaha kuch. Ek baat mene suni k (Jalan agr ho aur aap uspr kuch na bole na act kare to aapko koi nuksan nahi hoga ) kya yeh baat ghamand k liye bhi same apply hogi?

Qaswsa hay ziada, dehaan na Dain.
Astghfar karain 100 times after fajar

I would like to ask regarding the guidance of Imam. In each time, every ummah met the imam of their time and were able to be guided by the Imam of their time. How about this ummah since our imam is in ghaibah , there are those that died without the guidance of the Imam of their time. My question is will they be allowed to be among the soldiers of Imam, and that they will be guided again or?

Not everyone in past met Imam of their time but they received guidance from Imam through different channels. So we are receiving guidance.
And those who really spent their lives as Imam e Zaman ajtf wants, they will back at the reappearance of the Imam inshaAllah.
Therefore it is recommended to recite dua e Ahad 40 days continuosly after Fajar prayer.

As youth living in the West, what’s the best of advice you could give us to prepare for the reappearance of Imam Mahdi AJTFS so that we are able to always serve him?

You can listen to my recent majlis of Muharram you will find ways.
In short whatever ur profession is try to be perfect in your field, enhance your abilities, be a specialist of your profession and do Niyyat that all you doing for Imam e Zaman ajtf. Work on your soul, while reading Quran and munajaat

Kya Aisa ho sakta hai koe insaan bahoot zyada gunahgar ho Aur imam ke mohabnat dill me rakhta ho, to kya wo Apne App ko imam k liye tayyar kar sakta hai imam Ause Accept karege

Kion nahe. Touba ker Kay apnay app ko paak ker Kay Imam e Zaman ajtf kee khidmat main pounch sakta hay

My son is in love with a mushrik(polythiest) I want to know some dua or wazifa to break this haraam relationship. My son is not ready to listen anything

Read Namaz e Isteghasa of Imam e Zaman ajtf
InshahAllah HE will help

Please maulana aisi kuch dua ya Amal bataiye jisse hamara beta kaam kaaj karna shuru kare. Ghar ka business hai toh bhi kaam pe nahi aata. Bohat samjhane k baad bhi kuch farq nahi hai.

Read hadees e kisa and tawasul with Hazrat Zahra SA

From which book can i get the waqea of lives of ayatullah. Which book can i get waqeas of Normal people meeting Imam Mehdi(atfs)

If you find ahatullah shaheed dastagheb book of daastaan, I think it's available in Urdu

Is it okay to curse someone and pray for their destruction and pray bad for them from Allah (S.W.T)?

It's not good to pray bad, even if they did bad with you. Pray for their hidayat, and for getting back to normal life for them and for yourself. Only we can curse enemies of Allah and Ahlebait the way they teach us. Life is very short to be negative for others. Spread love and be happy.

I am a young sister from (removed), striving to become one a sincere & devout follower of the Imam of our time عج. but unfortunately i feel as if i constantly fail him through my sins & intentions, & i am honestly seeking advice on how one can attain the pleasure of the Imam & eventually become a member of his عج army Insha’Allah. do you have any advice?

First thing is ur concentration, your deeds, daily routine, relationship with your family, the wajibaat, namaz, reciting Quran, helping others, daily Dua Ahad after fajr. So start from small and increase it slowly and pray for reappearance.

As we read in Dua e Ahad that raise us along with our Imam. So first, at what age will we be revived? Second we say that take me out of my grave using my shroud as dress, so a person who knows to fight will only be able to fight or even other would be able to fight because of spirituality? Third in dua we say (walmustashhadina bayna yadayhi) and those who will be martyred before him. what does this line means?

Your first question about age, the answer is related to 2nd question as person comes with Kafan means that age he died, but after that he got powers or anything happens.
The Dress is sign of good deeds in person life, i.e Taqwa, so person fights with spiritual powers but it doesn't mean that we don't have to be active physically in our present life.
Related to Shadat are those who martyred before reappearance of Imam e Zaman ajtf also having a place , but we pray that we want Shahadat in his hands or in his army.

Earlier I used to stay separate with my wife and kids but now since some time my mother has come to stay in my house due to some health reasons . Now i do not have any separate room thus this affects my privacy with my wife . I have a wajib duty to take care of my mother but also there is a body need too which needs to fulfil. I stay disturbed and cannot concentrate on my work and ibadat because of not having physical relationship with my wife . In this situation is it permissible to masturbate to relieve this problem .

No you cannot, it's better to find some time while kids not in room or when they are sleeping or you can arrange somewhere else.

When someone is doing sins and he repents should he talk to a scholar about it

Better not to tell own sins to other, definitely scholars are like doctor. When we are not be able to hide our illness to doctors because he will not give exact medicine, same scholars helps to keep ourselves far from sins and motivated to good deeds.
We can ask about sins in general, it would be better

So saying I did this or that to scholar is not recommended, but what if I want to let it out

In ahadees it's not recommended to inform your sins to other and you already did astagfar then better to avoid, but still you want some advice to away from sins you can ask

I have been struggling with a sin for quite some time now, but have had little success in quitting. I've struggled for years and have tried many different methods to quit, but nothing has helped. It leaves me wondering why Allah SWT has not granted me a way out of it. Am I doing something wrong on my part that may block me from receiving Allah's help? I'm confused why He has not granted me the ability or means to stop this sin that I have been struggling with for so long.

Quiting sin required good deeds on other areas, like helping someone, respecting parents, offering salat on time, reading Quran, utilizing ur time, sports, and avoid that things which lead you towards sin

There is a brother who is committing sin regularly and is unable to stop. He tried but failed after many attempts and continues to ask for Allahs SWT forgiveness every time he commits it. After some time he went to the local imam for advice.

The local Imam told him that the sin would be almost impossible to stop. The Imam recommended the brother should get married saying that people with the same sin as his usually stop the sin after marriage and their faith increases.

This brother is still a student in a very demanding program which takes a lot of his time, but he and his parents have tried searching for a wife anyway. They have been searching for a long time now with no luck. What should the brother do at this point?

There is a salaat of esteghsa from Hazrat Zehra SA for marriage which our teacher recommend. You can find in shiatoolkit as well

My question is about Hijab. I understand that due to the difference in the biology of male and female, we have different needs. However the thing that i do not understand is why women have to cover the hair and neck, while men do not; of course, i understand men have awrah and hijab obligation too, but why do they not have to cover their hair?

Your answer is in ur question, they are created different biologically and they have different feelings, different needs etc

Hijaab of women save her dignity plus family relationship plus society needs.

Man is hard, decision maker, have mange family etc so he have to live different way in society

In short all is about obedience

The one thing i don't really understand that if wearing hijab on hair protects women’s dignity, then why do men not have to wear it

It's not for the man simple
but in fact wearing turban for men was common that time

May kashmir say hoo yaha par kuch aalim aur loog keahtay hai reahbar mouzem ayatullaha syed ali khameni k under tamam mujhthaidn hai. may muqalid ayatullaha uzma Syed Ali sistini ka
Ka mujhay be reahbar k futwa par amal karni hai

Please elaborate me about reahbar mouzem

App agha sistani kee taqleed main rehain koi masla nahe. Rehbar kee site ENG aur urdu main hay, sekhtay reha karain Aur jo speches translate Hote hain suntay rehain

I’ve seen a lot of short video clips of your lectures that people have posted on Instagram where you mention Imam Mahdi AJTFS and talk about incidences where he’s met people. I just wanted to ask, as youth living in the West, what’s the best of advice you could give us to prepare for the reappearance of Imam Mahdi AJTFS so that we are able to always serve him inshaAllah?

You can listen to my recent majlis of muharum you will find ways, inn shahAllah.
In short whatever your profession is, try to be perfect in your field, enhance your abilities, be a specialist of your profession and do Neyyat that all you doing for Imam e Zaman ajtf , work on ur soul, while reading Quran and manjaat

I wanted to ask whether it is ok to take things like colouring books/pencils for toddlers during majalis at the mosque. I tend not to take any toys or other entertaining things for my daughter who is 18 months but after about 30-40minutes she gets restless. So is it OK to take toys for them or better to avoid it so that they learn to try to listen to majalis? I don't want her to associate majalis with playing /colouring time . Or am I being a harsh mum?

No its OK to take books and pencils because 18 months very small age to listen but as she grows-up then you can teach her to listen majlis

Darkhuwast hai ke merey interview ke liyeh dua kijiyeh. Or koi amaal aap ko pata hon to bataiyeh ga please.

Imam e Zaman ajtf say tawasul karain ,100 times Salawat hadiya karain Imam e Zaman ajtf kee walida ko.

Walid sahab ko CT scan ke liyeh kaha hai. Koi esa amal ya mannat jo dar e ahle bait se fil waqt ki jai.

I asked from Ayatollah Tehrere about your father and request for dua, He said read hadees kisa and mix khak e shifa of karbala with aab e zamzam and give your father to drink. Inn shah Allah he will be fine

3 saal pehly meri ammi ne mera rishta apni aik czn ki beti se krna chaha to me ne mana kr dia k mera dil nai h wahan pe, but 2 saal pehly unho ne mere se puchy bgair mera rishta kr dia usi larki k sath, me khamosh ho gya k shayad mera dil us ki tarf mayal ho jay lekin ni ho paya, ab muje aik aur larki pasand h, jo k (ANOTHER SECT) h, me confuse hon kia krun aur kese krun,
Kia muje is matter pe istakhara krna chiye ?

Waldain kee pasand family ko dekh ker hote hay, aur bohat saree chezain waldain dekhtay hain jabkay hum khud sirf apni pasand ko dekhtay hain. Ahlesunat ka masla nahe, apki family disturb ho jaye gee, aur anay wali nasal ka Ahlebait AS say mohabat bhe zaroree hay. App Allah subhantala say madad talab karain woh apki pasand ko tabdeel ker sakta hay. Dduniya itne important nahe kay kuch pasand kee kahter apni akhrat khraab karain.
Waldeen kee pasand ko apni pasand banyain aur akhrat kee tarf mutawajah hoon.

Can we clap in mehfil whether qawwali on manqabat on shahbaz qalandar or in any qasida

Yes if it will be in limit

qibla kya Aisa ho sakta hai koe insaan bahoot zyada gunahgar ho Aur imam ke mohabnat dill me rakhta ho, to kya wo Apne App ko imam k liye tayyar kar sakta hai imam Ause Accept karege.

Kion nahe. Tuba ker Kay apnay app ko paak ker Kay Imam e Zaman ajtf kee khidmat main pounch sakta hay

My son fell in so called love with a hindu girl in his class. I asked him but he always lied to me that he is not having any relationship. While leaving for hostel I found love letters and cards from his bag and I told him that this is haraam relationship and will not be accepted by us at all. I secretly removed the letter and cards from my son. When he came to know about it since then he is not talking to me and doesn't want to keep any relation with me. He is a typical boy who doesn't want to follow any religion and he also doesn't like us (his parents) for we ask him to offer namaaz and religion. I am very troubled how to get him on the right path. I am too worried as since last month he hasn't talk to me . Please help

Such things not happen in one day, it was building before and now it's reacting.
Anyway now you have to act normal and caring to him, don't lose ur son. If that girl accept Islam then ask your son because going against his will can't work.
Do tawasul with Ahlebait AS and read hadees e kisa 40 days.

I pray for him everyday in all my prayers n every breath I take but I see that Allah is not listening to my prayers. I don't see even a tiny change in my son. I am getting a feeling that I'm losing the battle with Shayataan who has fully controlled my son. At times there is immense faith in me that Allah will bless my son with his hidayat but when I see my son my faith gets shattered. I feel helpless and broken. I have made duas giving wasila of Karbala too. Please help

Life is too short to leave hope, you have to to do yout duties, rest with Allah subhantala. Hazrat Noah as son left him. He tried. So we have to see this is exam of our life, see world with other angles inn shahAllah things will be change
Do tawasul with Hazrat Ali Akbar as

I have a 17yr old son very rebellious. Recently I have caught drugs in his room and he has denied the usage. He doesn't want to accept that he is wrong. For studies he has all types of excuses. He neither offer namaaz nor wants me to tell him about religion. Only he follows moharram that too without attending any majalis. He doesn't want to listen anything. Please help.

It did not happen in one day, it took long to be in such a stage where your son is now. It’s better to be calm with ur son, involve someone else to talk with ur son, give ur son love caring, don’t talk harsh, don't abuse him, give him chance to understand, try to find his friend who is better in practicing and request him to help ur son out from drugs and all, in last pray for him

I live with my mother and 2 children. My mother is a very good person she has always helped others during her healthy life but at the same time she tried to dominate and interfere in people's life too. She didn't have a happy relationship with my father since her early 50's as she was never satisfied by anyone. She has a basic nature that whatever she does is only correct. My father was always very hurt with her attitude. My father passed away 1.5 years ago . I got scared of losing her too so I always want to keep my mother fit n fine. I regularly take her to doctor and give her medicines on time. I take her out for outings too but she is never happy. She is always unhappy and dissatisfied . Yesterday she didn't take her medicines and somehow I lost my cool and shouted like hell on the poor old lady. She got a hysterical attack and she too started shouting and hitting me. I was shouting equally with her but didn't react to her hitting me but suddenly while shouting her face started turning red n blue so to get her back to her senses I slapped her hard on her cheek. She came back to her senses and started shouting again. Then I got mellow down and explained her that I dont want to lose her thats why I created a scene and shouted at her. My mother told me that she will never forgive me. After few minutes both of us cried a lot remembering my father. ..and I kept my head on her feet and explained her the reason of my outrage and asked for repentance from her. She hugged me and told me that " Allah ko hazir maan ke maine tum ko maaf kiya beta". I am not able to forget and forgive my self at all. What should I do now to get forgiveness from my mother and Allah and Panjatan and my Imams.

I understand ur feeling, it's good to regret but when your mother said Kay maaf ker diya then you don't need to torture ur self. Just do wuzu, read 2 rakth namz and go in sajda, do astagfar, read 100 times salwat
Inn shah Allah ur heart will be fine completely and treat ur mother like a child, maybe not perform things as perfect, so be calm

Somewhere in my heart I am getting a feeling that out of my fear to lose her and my anger to see her going hysterical made me slap her to get her back to senses. I'm not able to make it clear. Darr lagta hai kahin anger toh nahi tha itna ki maa ko maar diya. Although her veins of neck and temple got swelled which could have led to haemorrhage if she wasn't stopped to scream. I'm not able to forgive myself. I'm seeing my darling innocent mother and I feel bad for my heinous deed

Hurting urself is also ghunnah, so don't put urself in more trouble. If logically u don't come out from this situation then, shaitan will lead u to other ghunnah. Control yourself and be normal. Things happen in life. Your mother needs you, so be positive and calm

I want a help from you actually mere husband me pehle kuch buri aadate thi but Alhumdolillah ab nhi hai lekin phir b jab kabi vo mere se dur kahi kaam k lia b jate hai aur kabi late ho gae ya call nhi lagta hai reply nhi karte hai to mere zahen me unko leke bure khayal aane lagte hai jaise vo phir se koi Haram kaam me lag gae. Mai aise sab khayal se bachna chahti hu kyu k bolte hai na bura socho to bura hi hota hai please mujhe koi amal batae.

Acha sochay, Allah subhantala per bahrosa rekhain, aur Ahlebait AS say tawasul karain, woh khud hifazat karain gain

My son has a problem with his speech and he cannot speak looking into anyone's eyes, which is a big problem for us in his admission in school. Also, he has become very stubborn (ziddi) and is minor autistic child. Please help is to cure him with some surahs and amals.

Well I advise to see child psychiatrist because he needs one to one session plus you have to check your routine about his ziddi attitude, have to find reason.

Read daroodh tasbeh and recite ayatulkursi beside him when sleeping.

Mera aapse sawal hai k mai aise halat me kya karu k mere shohar koi kaam nhi karte aur apni zimmedari ka ehsas nahi hai. hamari shadi ko 4saal ho rahe hai aur unka kehna hai k mujse shadi me baad unke halat aise ho gaye pehle unka kaam bht acha tha par shadi k baad unke halat kharab ho hai to mai apse puchna chahti hu kya sach me aisa hora hai aur hamare bich na ittefaqi but Bach hai hai plz koi hal bataiyye

Aesa kuch nahe. Insaan apnay amaal say rizq barha saktha hay.

Fajar Kay baad 100 times astghfar karain, apnay daily kay kamoon per tawajha dain, sadqa dain, kaam kee koshish karain.

I have a question my parents made me marry my cousin from back home. I did not wanted to marry her they kept on asking me to marry her for like 3 to 4 years. Recently I went back home and got married to her. When i came back she kept on calling I didnt wanted to talk to her then told her I dont want you anymore. I said divorce 4 to five times. Am i still her husband? Is marriage is broken now?

Divorce not applied by just saying yourself to wife, it's almost like nikah and scholar have to recite with two ghawa, you are still her husband, and it's not good to leave someone without any reason

For the past two or three years ago, i guess because of changing trends of clothes, people started being rude to me, i wasn't big on wearing trendy clothes, but after the weirdness, I started to wear trendy clothes. Alhumdulillah the problem went down. Then i started to gain some weight, people would treat me somewhat weird. I am tired of the discrimination and weird treatment by people ,and i am sensitive to the slightest things. So what can i do to make the problem go away once and for all. Is there a dua you can give me to recite in order so i dont look weird or dua to gain respect, or dua to remove peoples weird behaviours?

You have to change your view about this world, it's a temporary place, and actual is Akhrat, so we have to live according to that. Wearing and lifestyle is OK if it's in boundaries of Islam, rest about people so we cannot make every single person be happy with us.
It's better to do such things that makes Allah Subhnatala happy, He can change the behavior of people, so reduce ur sensitivity, live your own, do pray punctual and read hades e kisa once a week

I'm a medical student pursuing internship presently but I've been always feeling low and negative regarding most things in life. I don't know how most small problems make me feel anxious and angry. I want to be successful and avoid worrying so much. Another problem I have is difficulty in making choices even simple ones. Please help me out

Ignore is best thing in daily life, better concentrate on big goals, ignore small matters and go on, read daroodh 100 times a day makes you feel better, find motivation, do astghfar as well 100 times after fajar Namaz.

I listen Your Majlis Often on Online. I want to know from which book you say the waqea of life of ayatullahs. Which book can i get waqeas of normal people meeting Imam Mehdi(atfs)

It's not one book different books and from my teachers, but if you find ayatollah shaheed dastagheb book of daastaan, I think it's available in Urdu

I would like to ask a question regarding family life. My family is very cultural and my siblings are living like westerners, not really caring about religion a single bit except my sisters wear hijab but still has unislamic behavior and foul language and so does the rest of my family. I feel very lonely in my family as I’m the only practicer and I’m being judged a lot for being “too extreme” and “too religious”. I have noticed some of their bad manners have had an impact on me. Such as being negative, interrupting or being flippant and I truly dislike these habits in myself. I just have a hard time getting rid of them. I hope you can give me some advice on what to do

I understand it's hard but it's a great opportunity, so take every things positively, don't care much of their behaviour, do your practice, engage your self in some other activities, be normal in front of them,work on your profession or studies,prove yourself a successful person, pray for them, love them, show your care for them, give some time more to your self alone in ibadat, reading Quran.

I would like to know regarding the Stages of Iman in reference to a narration I heard that said Hz. Salman Farsi was on the 10th stage of the Iman while Hz. Aba Dharr was on the ninth. I would also like to know if a sinner like myself can atleast try to acheive those stages or acheive the level of irfan and if yes then what are the early steps that need to be taken in order to purify one's soul for the purpose of achieving higher stations in the eyes of Ahlulbait (as)?

Well it's not easy to understand that stages neither required because we have to uplift our Emaan. Irfan needs teacher that can help to gain ranks and understand world so it's a procedure and continuous struggle.

I know the definition of backbiting but I fail to apply it in some situations. I cant decide whether they account for backbiting or not..Please can u explain these situations individually
My relative always says negative remarks to me. I told it to my parents so that they keep small distance not to cut the relation.Is it backbitting? 
My classmate hurt me by telling that you look like dead body and always makes fun of me. I got hurt .I told my bestfriend just to feel better. Is it backbitting?
My friend told me that her friend was telling that i have no dressing sense. I replied to my friend that your friend has no right to tell this she wears so cheap clothes, first of all she should look at herself
Telling the behaviours of my cousins to my mother when i visit them. Is it backbiting ?
If i tell my sister about a girl who laughs at me, who once tore my book, who is very arrogant. Is it backbitting?

For start, read daily dua in mafthe ul jinah, and daily ziarat. All week days having different dua and ziarat. In all above 4 situation if your intention is good then it's ok.

2nd be positive to all makes you feel good and change your behavior and appearance also because zahair and batin both have to be good

I want to get closer to Allah. What can i continuously do for 40days to get closer to Allah . I want my heart to become pure from spiritual diseases like arrogance, envy etc and I want my heart to become free from love of this world. It is said when we do an act for 40days it becomes our habit .What can i do so that Allah raises me spiritually

This process never end it's jahad ba nafs that need continues struggle, and it's start from small things then lead to higher act.
1st do your wajibaat and stay away from all haram deeds, astagfar daily after fajar, read dua ahad after fajar prayers, rest live normal life because we are born to be in society.

I am unable to pray namaz despite not been busy , I am under sever depression and I also masterbate and watch porn a lot, can you please help me out ? I am also too lazy.

Any books you would recommend? Any spiritual program I could attend?

First do astghfar. What depression you are having?

Depression of committing sins. I have double face, people think I am very religious person.

I also don’t have self control at all.

Why don't you get marry to stop all such things

We are a childless couple in early 60’s. We wish to bequeath our flat where we reside to our Nephew who is also my wife's brother son as well as my sisters son. They also have two daughters who are married and happily residing abroad. kindly advice us.

It’s no problem when u don't have child but if it's only property then you have to first make will for ur wife as well then to others and also one third for some welfare for sake of Allah Subhnatala, or if u have more then this then you can

Whom we can give the amount of imam zamin .

Give to any imambargah

I am dissatisfied with by life. Every time when i try to obey Allah i fail. How can i remain obedient to Allah ?

Your thinking of obedience is rehmat e Elahi, so be positive and try your best from small things. Don’t put once yourself for many good deeds. First pray from Allah Subhnatala and ask help, try to avoid place, people where you forget Allah Subhnatala, start reciting daroodh tasbeh, and astagfar tasbeeh a day, be in touch, Imam e Zaman atfs helps us

i know is lust to jimai with my wife while is in hedh days
but i feel to jimai, what is alternative way to help me. Im fearing Allah's anger

there is always a reason in Islam for forbidden any act,
so it's better to busy urself in other activities, and man can control himself ask help for Allah Subhnatala

I've recently become a Shia, I'm an ex sunni from India and I want to move to Iran and settle down, close to our current Imam Sayyed Ali Hosseini Khamenei… Is there any way either you or the government can help us out?

Salam alykum
Allah Subhnatala give you success in both world,
Ahlebait AS guide you on every step of your life,

you can contact a local scholar or cultural center of iran if they can help you out

pray for ur success

salamun alaikum
mera sawal yeh hai ki koi aisa amal dua batyea k jisse mere nazdeeki taarikus salat log raahe raas par aa jaye.samjhane se to samhajte nahi woh mai thakk gaya unko samjha kar…

wsalam, dua, namaz Kay baad unkay liye dua kijye, plus unko kisse aur naik kaam kee dawat dain, jesay unsay sadqa dilwa daina, indirectly Allah Subhnatala kee mohabbat unkay dil main paida karain, unkay naam say app khud sadqa dain

My husband blindly respects and loves his mother knowing that she is ruining our relationship but he never supports me telling me that he cannot spoil his aakhirat. His mother abuses me n my children and curses us and recites wazifas with amals of black magic in his absence. My question is that aakhirat is only from mother what about the wife whom you married?? Does islam only teaches to go to jannat theough your mother and wife is only to legalise sexual demands??

wsalam,
it's not like this person have to take care of every one in family, every individual having its place, mother having own rights but wife and kids having own, Man have to take firm decisions to manage family,
I pray for you and your family, may Allah Subhnatala change your husband thinking

Asak. Please elaborate and explain your answer.

wsalam,
in Islam all having rights, parents, wife, kids, neighbors etc,
for that plz check risala e huqooq of Imam sajad AS,
ur husband also have to concern any scholar to resolve this issue, he must to take care of you and kids as he are taking care of his mother,
if he is ignoring you and kids and thinking that he will be safe in akhrat then he is.on big mistake, akhrat is faraway even a person can't be able to manage one night after death in grave,
so inform him politely, that you and ur kids also respect mother but where we go if you ignore us, Allah Subhnatala is not happy if we heart any momin,
try not to harsh infront of your husband, give love and take love,
pray for your husband, do tawasul with ahlebait AS,
read hadees kisa daily for this problem, give sadqa for imam e Zaman atfs,

Illtemasedua

Salam
Moulana this is a question for some1
I am asking on behalf

what is the Shia ruiling on sexual fantasy example
can husband and wife discuss sex and talk about their past and what they like and may be talk about others but it will remain with them only .

also in oral sex
is licking and sucking allowed.

sorry to ask you these type of questions
but it could save some body from GUNAAH

also if you can provide references for the answer you give would be great

khfzz

wsalam, as per ahadees Husband and wife can talk abt sex but not abt others bcoz it can lead them to ghunnah
about oral sex you have to see tuzee ul masail

Salam moulana

thank you for the reply
moulana can the couple talk about their past sexual life
and also their fantasy
it will remain with them only
both are ok with it
then what's the problem
could u give a reference as it not allowed

wsalam,
there is not everything with reference, Allah Subhnatala give us brain to think and decide wat is good or bad,
while talking abt past with someone else breaks the Haya and definitely to whom a person talk might living their own life plus in past they made any prohibited things so better to astagfar neither to tell each other
.
I consider past before marriage

salaam aliakum. .
dear qibla please mujhe gunah se duri k liye koi suggestions karen.. mujhe khuda maaf kare mujhe porn dekhne ki aadat padgai hai..Please guide me to come out of this gunah..
mere liye dua karen..

wsalam,
apnay ghunnah per shirminda hona khud Allah Subhnatala kee tarf mutuwjha hona hay,
continue astagfar karain,
specifically after fajar parayer 100 times,
apnay app ko busy rekhain, kaam, studies, sports main,
yeah sari lazzatain temporary hain aur sub khtum ho Jaye ga,
tu behtar hay jesay Allah Subhnatala nay hukum diya hay zindagi guzarain,
ager shahdi kee age hay tu phir uss Kay liye khoshis karain
Allah Subhnatala app kee hefazat farmye

Maulana sahab meri wife mujhse 2 mahine se baat nhi kar rahi hai.. Sab sahi chal raha tha shadi ko 2 saal huye hain abhi.. Lekin wo sabse keh rahi hai mujhe khula lena hai lekin abhi tak mujhse koi rabta nhi kiya… Jhoote ilzamat laga rahi hai ke mai marta peet ta hu…. Lekin mai use talaq nhi dena chahta.. Sath rehna chahta hu… Wo karachi pakistan me hai aur mai dubai me hu.. Mai indian hu aur wo pakistani

Salam alykum,
app uss baat kerain, may be koi aur wajha hoo,
ya aesay shaks say kahen jis per app trust kertay hoon,
hadees e kisa kee tilawat karain daily 40 days, isse niyat say,
Imam e Zaman atfs kee salamti ka sadqa dain,
Allah Subhnatala Karam farmain

salam alaikum maulana saab, mai bhot saalon se sun raha hun k 'jisne khud ko pehchana, usne khuda ko pehchana' , aaj tak iss baat ka matlab ny samjha. agar kisi shaqs ne khud kii study or usko pata chala k woh geebatdaar hai, darpok hai, chor hai, wagaira wagaira toh kya naauzobillah khuda bhi aisa hai. please iska matlab bataiyega k kiss liye yeh kaha jata hai.

wsalam, apnay app ko pehchna yani apnay wujood ko,kahan say Aya hay kahan ja reha hay,uss Kay atraaf main yeah sub Kiya hay, aur apnay ko goor kerna apni khilqat per apnay badan Kay nizaam ko, uske bareekion ko... insaan mutuwjha ho Jaye ga, Kay uska khaliq Kitna qadir hay, Kitna azeem hay, ik aur hadees main hay jis nay Allah ko pehchna utna uska khoof berhta jata hay yani utna khuda kee ibadat kerta hay utna he ghunnah say door rehta hay

salam alaikum, mai apni wife ki har baat me yaqin karne k liye kabhi usse quran ki, kabhi uske parents ki or kabhi meri, kabhi pet me jo hai 6 mahine ka baccha uski qasam khil waata hun. Qasam khilwane ki adat muje isliye padi q k pehle kafi baar yeh hua k jab maine usse kuch pucha to kuch jawab mila or jab qasam khilwaae to sahi jawab dia usne. shayad qasam khilwana sahi ny h lekin fir mai kya karun? mera bharosa toota h, isliye qasam khilwake sukoon milta h. agar mai galat hun to muje sahi raasta bataiye

qasam kee adat ager ho Jaye tu phir har baat per qasam kahni perhti hay
yahe baat app apni wife ko samjhain Kay beghair qasam Kay saach bolain
aur ager woh ammal na Karin tu phir yahe behtar hay

salam alaikum Maulana Sahab. Aaj mai life ke us stage me hun jahan par muje kafi chizen pata toh hai k kya kya sahi hai or kya galat, lekin mai ose kar nahi pa raha hun. Apni aadaton se bahar nahi nikal pa raha hun. Masalan kafir k hath ka khana galat h, gussa karna acha ny hai, namaz wajib h. Pata hone k baad bhi mai gusse karta hun, office me kafir ka pakaa hua khana khata hun, or namaz bi ny padta.Yeh kuch chizen hain, aisi kayi chizen sirf muje pata h lekin os par amal karna mere liye mushkil hora h. Is tarah se zindgi ny guzarna muje. Jo chizen janta hun , os p amal krunga to hi to os ka fayda hasil kr sakta huna. khali knowldge rkhna or dusro ko batana or dusro se expect krna k woh najiz giza na khayen, wo music na sune,etc.. To jo pata h uspe amal kaise karun. shukriya.

ammal app nay kerna hay
abhe say shrow ker dain
koi zaburdasti tu nahe kerwa sakta
apnay liye dua karain Kay Allah Subhnatala app ko tufeeq ata farmye
baqi hum bhe dua goo hain
kisse ik kaam say shorow karain...

salam alaikum. ek meri bhot kharab aadat h, shayad is adat ki wajah se ek din meri wife mujse alag hojaygi. misaal k taur p jab meri wife koi galti kar jati hai or jab mai gussa krta hun to woh maan bhi leti h or yeh bhi kehti h next tym wo is bat ka dhyan rkhegi. lekin fir bhi mai yehi baat pakde rehta hun k yeh hua q. aisa q kiya, krne k pehle socha q nahi. halake wo galti maan ri h fir bhi….is adat se mai kaise bahar niklun, please help Aaga.

astagfar karain ziada
apnay present per shukar karain, don't live in past werna present bhe khrab aur future bhe kharab ho Jaye ga,
jab Allah Subhnatala humko maaf kerta hay tu humko bhe dosron ko maaf kerna chaye

shukriya maulana saab jawab dene k liye. Aksar ye hota h k meri wife ko meri ammi ki koi baat buri lagti h toh wo mujse share karti h. do baar maine ammi se is baare me baat kii to ammi ko laga k wife ne mere kaan bhare or shikayat kiii, par meri wife ne sirf mujse share kiya tha uska yeh mtlab ny tha k mai uski side se ammi se baat karun. kya aurton ko shauhar se yeh sab discuss ny krna chahiye. kya shauhar ko yeh sab sunne k bad maa se discuss krna chahiye. agar wife share na kare or dil me preshan rahe to bi sahi ny h. or agar wife ka sunke maa se share karun toh maa k dil me wife k liye nafrat paida hogi. Aisi situation ko handle krne ka sahi tarika kya h jisse dono k dil me mohobbat bani rahe

wife say sun ker mother ko na batain
aur na mother say sun ker wife ko
indirectly situation ko handle karain
wsalam

shukriya maulana saab jawab k liye. mera ek or sawal h thoda tulani sawal h. meri shadi ko 7 mahine hue hain. ek bat ki wajah se shayad mai apni wife ko chhod hun. wife har 3rd ya 4th day apne mayke jati h or har sunday mai bhi usko leke jata hun. iske alawa roz wo apne ghar p fone p bi baten krti h kafi der tak. or kabi kabi uske kehne p mai use 2 se 3 din k liye mayke me rehne bi deta hun. lekin muje yeh ny pasand. 10 se 15 din me ek bar ghar jaye to mai razi hun, 2 se 3 din me ek bar fon p bat ho to bi mai razi hun, lekin aksar jana muje acha ny lagta. mai use chillata hun gussa krta hun wo rone lagti h , kehti h k apko kya pareshani h agar hum apne prents se milte hain or bat krte hain. hum unhe dekhlete hain har do din me to hume sukoon milta h. mai samajta hun k yeh mohobat ka mamla h,kuch galti uske parents ki bi h k woh bi meri wife se puchte rehte h k kab aogi. muje lagta h k agar aisa hi h to aisi ladkiyon ko shadi nahi krni chahiye jo apne shuhar ka farmaan na maan saken. maine use samjhaya bi k shadi k bad shauhar ko zada importance dena chahiye or ye to nizam h k ek din ladki ko apna ghar chodna padta h. khuda janta h k mai parents se milne k khilaf ny hun bus jo limit cros hori h isse muje taqlif h. aay din in baton p hamara arguemnt hota h. mera dimagi sukon khatm ho chuka h,office me bhi concentrate ny kr pata hun. ab aisa lagra h k mai use chod dun taake wo jinhe zada miss krri h unhi k sath rahe. kya iska koi hal h. maine suna h k aurat p wajib h k wo shauhar ki bat maane. agar apko lagta h k meri isme koi galti h to bi muje zarur bataiye. anjane me ake koi galat faisla na lun isliye plz help

wsalam, yeah baat app unkay parents say karain tafseel say, thanda hoo ker, hamesha ghar abaad kerni kee such rekhain, positive sochna halat ko badal daita hay
ager sahe trekay say baat kerain gain tu woh samjh jain gain
2nd app apni wife ko mohabbat aur care dain gain tu woh khud apki tarf mutuwjha hoo gee

salam alaikum maulana sahab. mai 30 saal ka hun. muje bachpan se bhot zaada gussa aata hai. ab mai shadi shuda hun. shadi k baad bhi muje kai sari baton p gussa ata h mai wife p gussa krta hun woh roti h fir agar uski awaz zara si bhi tez hoti h toh mera gussa or badhta h. kuch baton p mera gussa jayaz h lekin choti choti baton p bhi gussa ata h. maine suna h k rasule khuda ne kisi shaqs se teen baar kaha k gusse p qaabu pao. lekin kya rasule khuda ne koi tariqa ya technique bhi batayi k kaise gussa control karen? shukriya. mai har situation me chahe woh badi ho ya choti , har chiz me gussa kam krna chahta hun. net par kafi chizen padhi hai maine. bus aap koi practical tariqa batayen inshala

Salam alykum,
zindagi bht short hay aur ager hum chtay hain isko sahe enjoy karain tu humain ziada thankful hona chaye,
shukar kerna jo chezain Allah Subhnatala nay ata farmye hain khud ba khud jo chezain nahe hay ya sahe nahe hain Kay aehsaas ko kum ker dayta hay
2nd gusa per qaboo kerna Kay liye app fajar Kay baad 100 dafa astagfar karain
100 dafa din main daroodh perhain
Inn shah Allah kam ho ga
qayyamat per tawajho karain duniya Kay gussay ko khatum ker day ga
illtemasedua

salam maulana sahab, meri wife ko kabhi kabhi mere bhai ki ya mummy ki koi baat buri lag jati hai to woh mujse share karti h. jab woh mujse gusse me share karti hai or mere gharwalo ki burai krti hai toh muje bhot bura lagta hai. ab aise me mai agar apne gharwalo ki side se bolun to usko bura lagega or agar uski han me han milaun to usko or mauka miljayga burai krne ka, ajeeb pareshani me fhas gaya hun mai. plz batayen k mera reaction is halat me kaisa hona chahiye

Balkay dunno Kay dermain mohabbat peada karain
Aur na hee ghar waloon Kay dermain Beth ker wife ko bura bolain
Thora strick hona perhta hay
Chote batoon per tawajho mat dain
Ignore karain
Baqi namaz main sub Kay liye dua karain
Indirectly baat ko convey karain
100 times salwat perh ker hazrat Abbas AS kee walida ko hadiya karain
Inn shah Allah mushkil hal ho Jaye gee.

salam alaikum moulana. kya music sunna haraam hai. agar kabhi drive karte waqt neend ke wajah se sunna agar chaahe to..Aur kya Music sunne se hamari namaz qubool nahi hoti hai aur kya hamari haajat puri nahi hoti hai moulana.

wsalam,
haram music kee definition, Tuze ul masail main hay,
usually app kee Murad ager songs say hay tu woh haram Kay zumray main aain gain,
laikin ager koi tarana hay ya aese kalam jis ka talluq Islam, tuheed, naat etc tu issues nahe
asal maqsaad Kay koi bhe cheez hum kiss liye ker rehay hain yeah important hay,
baqi haram music Sunnay say ik ghunnah anjam Pata hay jis Kay assraat hotay hain,
drive kertay hoye koi speech Quran aur normal radio talk program bhe sunna ja sakta hay

Salaam alaikum Moulana. Mujhe Allah(s.t.a) Isteghfaar karna hai aur mujhe yaqeen kaise hoga ke Allah ne mere isteghfaar ko qubool kiya hai. aur mujhe isteghfaar ka sabse behtareen tareekha bataye. Mere do masle bahot zyada hai jiski wajah se mai apne aap ko hamesha gunahgaar aur kamzor manti hu, mai namaz ki paband nahi hu aur kabhi long drive karte waqt music lagati hu ke mujhe neend na lagjaye aur mai bahot lazy feel karti hu. namaz ki pabandi nahi hone ke wajah se mere kamai me aur ghar mei barakat nahi hai aur intehai pareshania hai. please mere problems ka solution bata deejiye taaki mai amal karsaku aur music se kaise dur hosakti hu chaahe mai kitna he koshish karu…

Salaam alaikum Moulana. Mere sawal hai
Ruhaniyat kaise haasil hoti hai aur uske liye kya karna padta hai.
Isteghfaar ke kya tareekhe hai aur hame kaise yaqeen hoga ke Allah (s.a) ne hame bakhsh diya hai.
Kya music sunne se hamari ibaadat aur haajat puri nahi hoti?
please mujhe help kijiye.

wsalam,
rohaniyat wajibaat per ammal kernay say aur haram say door honay say hasil hote hay,
rohaniyat koi aese cheez nahe Kay koi ik ammal kernay say hasil hoo, apni zindagi Kay her ammal ko dehyan say anjam Dena,
her lamhay apnay app ko Allah Subhnatala ka bunda smjhna,Rasool e Khuda SAWW say mohabbat kerna unke sunnat per ammal kerna,wilyat ahlebait AS ko tasleem aur unke ataat kerna,
apnay huqooq sahe Ada kerna etc
astagfar zabani bhe hay aur ammal say bhe hay yani dobara woh ammal na kerna
rooz ik tasbeh astagfar kee fajar aur asar kee namaz Kay baad perhain, baqi Allah Subhnatala reham kernay wala hay humain hemsha iss per Yaqeen hona chaye,
music say Murad ghanay weghra hain tu yaqeenun iss Kay negative effects life per perhtay hain,

Illtemasedua

why we don't have 313 despite having thousands of scholars and students of knowledge. is divine time required for his a.t.f.s. reappearance ?

wsalam
Imam AS need ppl in every profession plus it's Allah Subhnatala decision when to give permission to Imam ajtf
so we have to ready and work towards reappearance by gaining knowledge and work in specific direction

assalam alikum

I have received the following message from one of my friends please advice
آخر موعد لقص الأظافر وأخذ شيء من الشعر لمن لديه نية الأُضحية
الثلاثاء الموافق 22/8/2017
ذكر بِه غيرك
تقبل الله منا ومنكم

Last day to cut your hair and nails will be 22/8/2017 if you are planning to do qurbani for Eid Aladha.

Remind others and get rewards
in sha allah.

wsalam
it's not like this

I work in a school, and have many non Muslim friends. I take precautions to not eat anything from them. Now my friend are inviting me for their ganpati celebration. I've already made to many excuses but now they are forcing me to attend. If I don't eat anything and don't participate in their pooja, then can I go to their house.

Salam alykum,
there are some spiritual effects, so might you u don't eat but it effects

Assalmualikum Sheikh, My family are all XXXX, and i kept my faith secret " taqyah" but there is this marriage issue i have, i kept refusing marrying sunnis and i want to marry a shia. They obviously will never approve of me marrying a shia, and i want my kids to be shias too. I'm a girl, But in this case " a revert" do i need the permission of my mother and father to marry a shia? and if yes, then they wont allow me marrying a shia and if not, who will be my wali in marriage? *My whole family are shia haters by the way*

Salam alykum sorry for late reply
1) do tawasul with Hazrat Zehra SA for marriage
2) in ur case if you find good shia man for marriage then you don't need permission from ur parents
3) you have to be strict regarding ur upcoming life if you for weaker and more inclined to ur family then might ur kids and life will be difficult as you told that they hate shias
if you have difficulties to find a good option for marriage then let me know where you live might we can do anything for you
if you don't want to share ur info here then I will give u personal email address

Assalmualikum, shiekh!
I’m a new revert, i’m an ex XXX living in a country where there are few shias here. I dont even know any shias. The problem is with my mom, i used to talk to her about shiaism before, my family are XXXX, so now i get insulted from time to time although i’m in taqyah but i cant manage my anger most of the time with my mom and she tightened the grip on me, no internet and even my facebook is searched, when i post anything about ahlul bayet, she would get extremely angry and she would order my to unfollow the people i shared their post although they are not shias. i dont really know what to do with my family " my mom especially" and i cant manage my anger most of the times, so we fight. my question is would allah curse me for her cursing me? how do i deal with her?

wsalam, Allah Subhnatala give you strength, well path of Ahlebait AS is hard, difficulties are there, but same time ahlebait AS teach us patience and intelligence.
so avoid unnecessary debates with ur mother, respect her, show care abt her, and whatever u want to do, don't need to inform them abt reading and all,
come with logical things, do tawasul with ahlebait AS, surely they help you
there is always a way....
Pray for ur success

Asalamualaikum sir kuch ajeeb si cheez hoti hai mere saath. mein abhi 4 am dua faraj par rahi thi.mein ek larki hoon aur mein dupatta ke baghair parh rahi thi.meujhe rona aaya. phir meine socha nahin dupatta pehn kar dua parhni chahiye lekin jab parh hi toh woh rone ka jo do daffa pehle aaya woh ab nahin aaya. is se pehle bhi kuch hisey howain hain.jaise agar mein surah parhoon ya quran ki ayat online bismillah ke baghair mere dil ko feeling aati hai . lekin jab mein bismillah bol kar parhoon to kam feeling aati hai.mujhe lagta tha ke kya shaitan mujhe pehle woh deen ke feelings de raha tha? lekin yeh mere saath kyon ho raha hai ? gunah ki waja se?mein kaise hatta sakti hoon is cheez ko?

wsalam,
her waqt ik jasey feelings nahe rehte,
jo asal tareeqa hay yani jo adaab hain dua perhnay Kay, Quran perhnay Kay, un per ammal zarore hay,
maarifat Kay Saath jo bhe kaam Kiya jaye asar kerta hay
gunna rukawat hay ibadat Kay asar main
Allah Subhnatala humain sahe amal kee tufeeq ata farmye

Asalamualaikum i have a problem.if i get angry and in an argument with my mother there are times i end up hitting her. i want to stop
i know hitting my mother is a yremendous horrible sin.its so horrific i think its even worse than a zalims actions. i have no idea .can i be saved from going to hell?i really wish to stop.and i dont know how or if Allah will punish me in the future.

it's really very sad, u shld not do this.
if you can't control then leave that place and when things get normal talk with ur mother in polite way
2nd do astagfar after fajar parayer 100 times
Inn shah Allah Allah Subhnatala accept ur apologies
I pray for you
and show ur love to ur mother by giving her any gift

Salam aga, how are you?
My brother is in Australia and also follower of Ayatollah Sayed Sistani dz. he was staying with our brothers in faith. but now they will be joined by their respective families. so as he is alone he has to move out the house. now the ppl with whom he will be living are non Muslims. and all are students of hotel management so they know to cook and to save cost they will be cooking turn by turn. SO IS IT PERMISSIBLE TO HAVE FOOD COOKED BY THEM. And also he will move out if he finds new students who are brothers in faith.

wsalam, if non-Muslim but Cristian or jews then only take care of halal and if they are Hindu or Buddhist then he can't eat better to find other place
Allah Subhnatala give him strength

Salam maulana. Mera sawaal hai ke agar kuch najaasat mere badan pe lag jaati hai (khoon, kaafir ka gheela haath etc.) toh phir apne badan ko paak kaisa kiya jaaye?

wsalam
usko pani say dohya Jaye

Hamaray baday bai mom aur dad ko acchi tarah baat nahi kartay hamaisha gussay mai rehta hai family kay sath gussay mai baat karta hai bahar walong se acchay se sulook karta hai

Salam alykum
koi reason ho ga Kay woh ghar aaker aesa kertay hongain... app inko aur mohabbat aur respect dain... istrhan unko khud aehsaas hoga... ghar jub sakoon kee jaga hoo tu insaan ghar main araam Pata hay
baqi jab unka mood acha ho tu indirectly unko batain Kay ikhlaq acha insaan ko hamesha zinda rekhta hay
akhir main app unkay liye dua karain her namaz main
wsalam

Salamun Alaykum w wr
What is the best way to safe from Gunaah…as in daily busy life…unwanted Sin has been done. So kindly advice how we can be away from various Sins…?
Jazakallah

*In the Presence of Ayatullah Tahriri*

🌻~ _I wanted a basic spiritual program_ ~

📩 *Question:-*
*_Salaamun Alaikum. If possible, I wanted to ask you for a practical spiritual program for beginning stages. I'm currently in business, but extremely interested in self-purification and hope that you will help me._*

📜 *Answer:-*

🌼 The primary step is _performing all the wajib actions_ and _avoiding all haram acts_. To know what these are, one should read:
💥 _"Tawzih al masail"_ (rules on jurisprudence) as well as other books such as
💥 _"Greater sins"_ of Shaheed Dastghaib,
💥 _"The obligatory and forbidden acts in Islam"_ of Ayatullah Mishkini and
💥 _"Introduction to sins"_ of Agha Qara'ti.

🌼 Have a yearly account of your money and belongings _(khums)_.

🌼 _Stay away from sins_, especially lying, backbiting, wasting other people's money/belongings and slandering others.

🌼 _Pray on time_ and in congregation (jamaat).

🌼 Read _Quran_ reguarly, even if it is just 20 verses a day.

🌼 Build relationship with _scholars and religious gatherings_.

🌼 Also bear in mind the importance of _helping the poor_ and the needy.

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