Yeah ache baat hay kay apka duniya main dil nahe lagta, but Islam humain jahan, ibadaat aur Allah subhantala say rabtay ka hukum daita hay wahan Socitey main rehna aur sab say rabta rekhna bhe sekhata hay. Kionkay ager Allah subhantala kee makhlooq razi hoge, Allah subhantala bhe razi hoga Logon say baat kerna , milna bhe Allah subhantala kee khatir karain tu app hamesha khoosh rehain gee
Droodh kee ik tasbeh din main perhain. Fajar kee namaz kay baad Astagfar kee ik tasbeh perhain
InshahAllah sab thek hoga
Best is you do Astagfar and recite salwat
You can pray in dua e qunoot, dua faraj.
Marrying anyone is not issue, for marriage first need research then go for estekhra, and when u rely on estekhra then why engaged someone 5 yrs?
If your family satisfied and her family, then give sadqa and get married.
First investigate about the person, then you can do istkhara
Definitely sorroundings have effects but you have to check your routine.
Do astghfar 100 times after fajar. Spend some time on prayer mat just examining your self.
Do tawasul with imam e zaman ajtf
Ayatul kursi and Nad e Ali is the best along with 4 surrah Qul
Also control his Tv times and better to involve him with physical activity games
Well this issue is due to the environment they are living in where parents have fear.
Definitely they love her but they way they are behaving is not good.
I think parents need to be told that if she uses her rights in westren society then they can't do anything. It's better treat her with love and respect. On the other hand that girl has to understand the meaning of life. It's her test while being good human because Allah subhantala tests good people. So she needs to pass through this test as well.
Better find good person for marriage and live the way she wants within the limitations given by Isla,
Tawasul with Hazrat Zahra SA, Hadees e kisa at least once a week. Do wajibaat so she will be happy. Focus on different angles of life which includes: Ibadaat, home, child upbringing. A women have to fill all; must be helpful daughter or sister or mother or wife.
One thing that is most important is tawasul with Imam Zaman ajtf
Behtar hay app apni ghar jain and try to live with that because life is short. Hurting someone will create problems in your life
Iska best hal ignorance hay. App tawajho he nahe dain, husnay zan rekhain kay jaga paak hay kionkay jab tak nijasat ka yaqeen nahe tu masla nahe.
Ziada serious na lain kuch chezoon ko. Aehsta aehsta change karain. Allah subhantala say dua karain.
Peshaab Kay qatroon ka ilaaj hay, pani ziada pian, white chanay kahain bhonay hoye, masany kamzoor honay kee wajha say bhe qatray atay hain, relax reha karain. Islam easy religion hay.
Alhamdulillah you have realized. This is also a blessing.
Try to listen to lectures available online.
My Ramadhan 2019 lectures will help you InshaAllah.
Other thing that is important is your relation with others, behaviour,
positive thinking, doing work on it's time.
These things help you InshaAllah.
App acha kaam kee try kertay rehain, yeh manajaat jab bhe muqa milta hay karain. Baqi jahan engagement hay wahan dil lagain. Life short hay. Don't live in your past. Future ka soochain.
Wajibaat per amal karain, check it relationship around your family freinds, concentrate on your studies,
Quran recitation, make people around you happy, helping others, find in which field you will be specialist and serve Imam e Zaman ajtf
This way you will be near to Imam e Zaman ajtf
There is a hadith if a religious proposal come don't ignore otherwise fasaad in society will come. My advice is accept this proposal inshaAllah things will be more attractive
Every work have effects if you do it.
You don't know how they work. There is good way and bad way also so I don't know who and how they working
Insaan kamzoor hay, ka bhe kuch acha hota hay kabhe kuch. App apni tarf say pora acha kijye. Indirectly aeshaas dilye
aur ager kisse dost say family relation hain tu unko mesage dijye balance life zarore hay but ghar main bhe sakoon hona chaye tabhe koi ghar per tawajhoo daita hay. App namaz main dua kijye
Allah subhantala halat behter farmain
aur thora relax rehain. App bhe busy rehain takay unko aehsaas hoo
Qaswsa hay ziada, dehaan na Dain.
Astghfar karain 100 times after fajar
Not everyone in past met Imam of their time but they received guidance from Imam through different channels. So we are receiving guidance.
And those who really spent their lives as Imam e Zaman ajtf wants, they will back at the reappearance of the Imam inshaAllah.
Therefore it is recommended to recite dua e Ahad 40 days continuosly after Fajar prayer.
You can listen to my recent majlis of Muharram you will find ways.
In short whatever ur profession is try to be perfect in your field, enhance your abilities, be a specialist of your profession and do Niyyat that all you doing for Imam e Zaman ajtf. Work on your soul, while reading Quran and munajaat
Kion nahe. Touba ker Kay apnay app ko paak ker Kay Imam e Zaman ajtf kee khidmat main pounch sakta hay
Read Namaz e Isteghasa of Imam e Zaman ajtf
InshahAllah HE will help
Read hadees e kisa and tawasul with Hazrat Zahra SA
If you find ahatullah shaheed dastagheb book of daastaan, I think it's available in Urdu
It's not good to pray bad, even if they did bad with you. Pray for their hidayat, and for getting back to normal life for them and for yourself. Only we can curse enemies of Allah and Ahlebait the way they teach us. Life is very short to be negative for others. Spread love and be happy.
First thing is ur concentration, your deeds, daily routine, relationship with your family, the wajibaat, namaz, reciting Quran, helping others, daily Dua Ahad after fajr. So start from small and increase it slowly and pray for reappearance.
Your first question about age, the answer is related to 2nd question as person comes with Kafan means that age he died, but after that he got powers or anything happens.
The Dress is sign of good deeds in person life, i.e Taqwa, so person fights with spiritual powers but it doesn't mean that we don't have to be active physically in our present life.
Related to Shadat are those who martyred before reappearance of Imam e Zaman ajtf also having a place , but we pray that we want Shahadat in his hands or in his army.
No you cannot, it's better to find some time while kids not in room or when they are sleeping or you can arrange somewhere else.
Better not to tell own sins to other, definitely scholars are like doctor. When we are not be able to hide our illness to doctors because he will not give exact medicine, same scholars helps to keep ourselves far from sins and motivated to good deeds.
We can ask about sins in general, it would be better
In ahadees it's not recommended to inform your sins to other and you already did astagfar then better to avoid, but still you want some advice to away from sins you can ask
Quiting sin required good deeds on other areas, like helping someone, respecting parents, offering salat on time, reading Quran, utilizing ur time, sports, and avoid that things which lead you towards sin
There is a salaat of esteghsa from Hazrat Zehra SA for marriage which our teacher recommend. You can find in shiatoolkit as well
Your answer is in ur question, they are created different biologically and they have different feelings, different needs etc
Hijaab of women save her dignity plus family relationship plus society needs.
Man is hard, decision maker, have mange family etc so he have to live different way in society
In short all is about obedience
It's not for the man simple
but in fact wearing turban for men was common that time
App agha sistani kee taqleed main rehain koi masla nahe. Rehbar kee site ENG aur urdu main hay, sekhtay reha karain Aur jo speches translate Hote hain suntay rehain
You can listen to my recent majlis of muharum you will find ways, inn shahAllah.
In short whatever your profession is, try to be perfect in your field, enhance your abilities, be a specialist of your profession and do Neyyat that all you doing for Imam e Zaman ajtf , work on ur soul, while reading Quran and manjaat
No its OK to take books and pencils because 18 months very small age to listen but as she grows-up then you can teach her to listen majlis
Imam e Zaman ajtf say tawasul karain ,100 times Salawat hadiya karain Imam e Zaman ajtf kee walida ko.
I asked from Ayatollah Tehrere about your father and request for dua, He said read hadees kisa and mix khak e shifa of karbala with aab e zamzam and give your father to drink. Inn shah Allah he will be fine
Waldain kee pasand family ko dekh ker hote hay, aur bohat saree chezain waldain dekhtay hain jabkay hum khud sirf apni pasand ko dekhtay hain. Ahlesunat ka masla nahe, apki family disturb ho jaye gee, aur anay wali nasal ka Ahlebait AS say mohabat bhe zaroree hay. App Allah subhantala say madad talab karain woh apki pasand ko tabdeel ker sakta hay. Dduniya itne important nahe kay kuch pasand kee kahter apni akhrat khraab karain.
Waldeen kee pasand ko apni pasand banyain aur akhrat kee tarf mutawajah hoon.
Yes if it will be in limit
Kion nahe. Tuba ker Kay apnay app ko paak ker Kay Imam e Zaman ajtf kee khidmat main pounch sakta hay
Such things not happen in one day, it was building before and now it's reacting.
Anyway now you have to act normal and caring to him, don't lose ur son. If that girl accept Islam then ask your son because going against his will can't work.
Do tawasul with Ahlebait AS and read hadees e kisa 40 days.
Life is too short to leave hope, you have to to do yout duties, rest with Allah subhantala. Hazrat Noah as son left him. He tried. So we have to see this is exam of our life, see world with other angles inn shahAllah things will be change
Do tawasul with Hazrat Ali Akbar as
It did not happen in one day, it took long to be in such a stage where your son is now. It’s better to be calm with ur son, involve someone else to talk with ur son, give ur son love caring, don’t talk harsh, don't abuse him, give him chance to understand, try to find his friend who is better in practicing and request him to help ur son out from drugs and all, in last pray for him
I understand ur feeling, it's good to regret but when your mother said Kay maaf ker diya then you don't need to torture ur self. Just do wuzu, read 2 rakth namz and go in sajda, do astagfar, read 100 times salwat
Inn shah Allah ur heart will be fine completely and treat ur mother like a child, maybe not perform things as perfect, so be calm
Hurting urself is also ghunnah, so don't put urself in more trouble. If logically u don't come out from this situation then, shaitan will lead u to other ghunnah. Control yourself and be normal. Things happen in life. Your mother needs you, so be positive and calm
Acha sochay, Allah subhantala per bahrosa rekhain, aur Ahlebait AS say tawasul karain, woh khud hifazat karain gain
Well I advise to see child psychiatrist because he needs one to one session plus you have to check your routine about his ziddi attitude, have to find reason.
Read daroodh tasbeh and recite ayatulkursi beside him when sleeping.
Aesa kuch nahe. Insaan apnay amaal say rizq barha saktha hay.
Fajar Kay baad 100 times astghfar karain, apnay daily kay kamoon per tawajha dain, sadqa dain, kaam kee koshish karain.
Divorce not applied by just saying yourself to wife, it's almost like nikah and scholar have to recite with two ghawa, you are still her husband, and it's not good to leave someone without any reason
You have to change your view about this world, it's a temporary place, and actual is Akhrat, so we have to live according to that. Wearing and lifestyle is OK if it's in boundaries of Islam, rest about people so we cannot make every single person be happy with us.
It's better to do such things that makes Allah Subhnatala happy, He can change the behavior of people, so reduce ur sensitivity, live your own, do pray punctual and read hades e kisa once a week
Ignore is best thing in daily life, better concentrate on big goals, ignore small matters and go on, read daroodh 100 times a day makes you feel better, find motivation, do astghfar as well 100 times after fajar Namaz.
It's not one book different books and from my teachers, but if you find ayatollah shaheed dastagheb book of daastaan, I think it's available in Urdu
I understand it's hard but it's a great opportunity, so take every things positively, don't care much of their behaviour, do your practice, engage your self in some other activities, be normal in front of them,work on your profession or studies,prove yourself a successful person, pray for them, love them, show your care for them, give some time more to your self alone in ibadat, reading Quran.
Well it's not easy to understand that stages neither required because we have to uplift our Emaan. Irfan needs teacher that can help to gain ranks and understand world so it's a procedure and continuous struggle.
For start, read daily dua in mafthe ul jinah, and daily ziarat. All week days having different dua and ziarat. In all above 4 situation if your intention is good then it's ok.
2nd be positive to all makes you feel good and change your behavior and appearance also because zahair and batin both have to be good
This process never end it's jahad ba nafs that need continues struggle, and it's start from small things then lead to higher act.
1st do your wajibaat and stay away from all haram deeds, astagfar daily after fajar, read dua ahad after fajar prayers, rest live normal life because we are born to be in society.
First do astghfar. What depression you are having?
Depression of committing sins. I have double face, people think I am very religious person.Why don't you get marry to stop all such things
It’s no problem when u don't have child but if it's only property then you have to first make will for ur wife as well then to others and also one third for some welfare for sake of Allah Subhnatala, or if u have more then this then you can
Give to any imambargah
Your thinking of obedience is rehmat e Elahi, so be positive and try your best from small things. Don’t put once yourself for many good deeds. First pray from Allah Subhnatala and ask help, try to avoid place, people where you forget Allah Subhnatala, start reciting daroodh tasbeh, and astagfar tasbeeh a day, be in touch, Imam e Zaman atfs helps us
there is always a reason in Islam for forbidden any act,
so it's better to busy urself in other activities, and man can control himself ask help for Allah Subhnatala
Salam alykum
Allah Subhnatala give you success in both world,
Ahlebait AS guide you on every step of your life,
you can contact a local scholar or cultural center of iran if they can help you out
pray for ur success
wsalam, dua, namaz Kay baad unkay liye dua kijye, plus unko kisse aur naik kaam kee dawat dain, jesay unsay sadqa dilwa daina, indirectly Allah Subhnatala kee mohabbat unkay dil main paida karain, unkay naam say app khud sadqa dain
wsalam,
it's not like this person have to take care of every one in family, every individual having its place, mother having own rights but wife and kids having own, Man have to take firm decisions to manage family,
I pray for you and your family, may Allah Subhnatala change your husband thinking
wsalam,
in Islam all having rights, parents, wife, kids, neighbors etc,
for that plz check risala e huqooq of Imam sajad AS,
ur husband also have to concern any scholar to resolve this issue, he must to take care of you and kids as he are taking care of his mother,
if he is ignoring you and kids and thinking that he will be safe in akhrat then he is.on big mistake, akhrat is faraway even a person can't be able to manage one night after death in grave,
so inform him politely, that you and ur kids also respect mother but where we go if you ignore us, Allah Subhnatala is not happy if we heart any momin,
try not to harsh infront of your husband, give love and take love,
pray for your husband, do tawasul with ahlebait AS,
read hadees kisa daily for this problem, give sadqa for imam e Zaman atfs,
Illtemasedua
wsalam, as per ahadees Husband and wife can talk abt sex but not abt others bcoz it can lead them to ghunnah
about oral sex you have to see tuzee ul masail
wsalam,
there is not everything with reference, Allah Subhnatala give us brain to think and decide wat is good or bad,
while talking abt past with someone else breaks the Haya and definitely to whom a person talk might living their own life plus in past they made any prohibited things so better to astagfar neither to tell each other
.
I consider past before marriage
wsalam,
apnay ghunnah per shirminda hona khud Allah Subhnatala kee tarf mutuwjha hona hay,
continue astagfar karain,
specifically after fajar parayer 100 times,
apnay app ko busy rekhain, kaam, studies, sports main,
yeah sari lazzatain temporary hain aur sub khtum ho Jaye ga,
tu behtar hay jesay Allah Subhnatala nay hukum diya hay zindagi guzarain,
ager shahdi kee age hay tu phir uss Kay liye khoshis karain
Allah Subhnatala app kee hefazat farmye
Salam alykum,
app uss baat kerain, may be koi aur wajha hoo,
ya aesay shaks say kahen jis per app trust kertay hoon,
hadees e kisa kee tilawat karain daily 40 days, isse niyat say,
Imam e Zaman atfs kee salamti ka sadqa dain,
Allah Subhnatala Karam farmain
wsalam, apnay app ko pehchna yani apnay wujood ko,kahan say Aya hay kahan ja reha hay,uss Kay atraaf main yeah sub Kiya hay, aur apnay ko goor kerna apni khilqat per apnay badan Kay nizaam ko, uske bareekion ko... insaan mutuwjha ho Jaye ga, Kay uska khaliq Kitna qadir hay, Kitna azeem hay, ik aur hadees main hay jis nay Allah ko pehchna utna uska khoof berhta jata hay yani utna khuda kee ibadat kerta hay utna he ghunnah say door rehta hay
qasam kee adat ager ho Jaye tu phir har baat per qasam kahni perhti hay
yahe baat app apni wife ko samjhain Kay beghair qasam Kay saach bolain
aur ager woh ammal na Karin tu phir yahe behtar hay
ammal app nay kerna hay
abhe say shrow ker dain
koi zaburdasti tu nahe kerwa sakta
apnay liye dua karain Kay Allah Subhnatala app ko tufeeq ata farmye
baqi hum bhe dua goo hain
kisse ik kaam say shorow karain...
astagfar karain ziada
apnay present per shukar karain, don't live in past werna present bhe khrab aur future bhe kharab ho Jaye ga,
jab Allah Subhnatala humko maaf kerta hay tu humko bhe dosron ko maaf kerna chaye
wife say sun ker mother ko na batain
aur na mother say sun ker wife ko
indirectly situation ko handle karain
wsalam
wsalam, yeah baat app unkay parents say karain tafseel say, thanda hoo ker, hamesha ghar abaad kerni kee such rekhain, positive sochna halat ko badal daita hay
ager sahe trekay say baat kerain gain tu woh samjh jain gain
2nd app apni wife ko mohabbat aur care dain gain tu woh khud apki tarf mutuwjha hoo gee
Salam alykum,
zindagi bht short hay aur ager hum chtay hain isko sahe enjoy karain tu humain ziada thankful hona chaye,
shukar kerna jo chezain Allah Subhnatala nay ata farmye hain khud ba khud jo chezain nahe hay ya sahe nahe hain Kay aehsaas ko kum ker dayta hay
2nd gusa per qaboo kerna Kay liye app fajar Kay baad 100 dafa astagfar karain
100 dafa din main daroodh perhain
Inn shah Allah kam ho ga
qayyamat per tawajho karain duniya Kay gussay ko khatum ker day ga
illtemasedua
Balkay dunno Kay dermain mohabbat peada karain
Aur na hee ghar waloon Kay dermain Beth ker wife ko bura bolain
Thora strick hona perhta hay
Chote batoon per tawajho mat dain
Ignore karain
Baqi namaz main sub Kay liye dua karain
Indirectly baat ko convey karain
100 times salwat perh ker hazrat Abbas AS kee walida ko hadiya karain
Inn shah Allah mushkil hal ho Jaye gee.
wsalam,
haram music kee definition, Tuze ul masail main hay,
usually app kee Murad ager songs say hay tu woh haram Kay zumray main aain gain,
laikin ager koi tarana hay ya aese kalam jis ka talluq Islam, tuheed, naat etc tu issues nahe
asal maqsaad Kay koi bhe cheez hum kiss liye ker rehay hain yeah important hay,
baqi haram music Sunnay say ik ghunnah anjam Pata hay jis Kay assraat hotay hain,
drive kertay hoye koi speech Quran aur normal radio talk program bhe sunna ja sakta hay
wsalam,
rohaniyat wajibaat per ammal kernay say aur haram say door honay say hasil hote hay,
rohaniyat koi aese cheez nahe Kay koi ik ammal kernay say hasil hoo, apni zindagi Kay her ammal ko dehyan say anjam Dena,
her lamhay apnay app ko Allah Subhnatala ka bunda smjhna,Rasool e Khuda SAWW say mohabbat kerna unke sunnat per ammal kerna,wilyat ahlebait AS ko tasleem aur unke ataat kerna,
apnay huqooq sahe Ada kerna etc
astagfar zabani bhe hay aur ammal say bhe hay yani dobara woh ammal na kerna
rooz ik tasbeh astagfar kee fajar aur asar kee namaz Kay baad perhain, baqi Allah Subhnatala reham kernay wala hay humain hemsha iss per Yaqeen hona chaye,
music say Murad ghanay weghra hain tu yaqeenun iss Kay negative effects life per perhtay hain,
Illtemasedua
wsalam
Imam AS need ppl in every profession plus it's Allah Subhnatala decision when to give permission to Imam ajtf
so we have to ready and work towards reappearance by gaining knowledge and work in specific direction
wsalam
it's not like this
Salam alykum,
there are some spiritual effects, so might you u don't eat but it effects
Salam alykum sorry for late reply
1) do tawasul with Hazrat Zehra SA for marriage
2) in ur case if you find good shia man for marriage then you don't need permission from ur parents
3) you have to be strict regarding ur upcoming life if you for weaker and more inclined to ur family then might ur kids and life will be difficult as you told that they hate shias
if you have difficulties to find a good option for marriage then let me know where you live might we can do anything for you
if you don't want to share ur info here then I will give u personal email address
wsalam, Allah Subhnatala give you strength, well path of Ahlebait AS is hard, difficulties are there, but same time ahlebait AS teach us patience and intelligence.
so avoid unnecessary debates with ur mother, respect her, show care abt her, and whatever u want to do, don't need to inform them abt reading and all,
come with logical things, do tawasul with ahlebait AS, surely they help you
there is always a way....
Pray for ur success
wsalam,
her waqt ik jasey feelings nahe rehte,
jo asal tareeqa hay yani jo adaab hain dua perhnay Kay, Quran perhnay Kay, un per ammal zarore hay,
maarifat Kay Saath jo bhe kaam Kiya jaye asar kerta hay
gunna rukawat hay ibadat Kay asar main
Allah Subhnatala humain sahe amal kee tufeeq ata farmye
it's really very sad, u shld not do this.
if you can't control then leave that place and when things get normal talk with ur mother in polite way
2nd do astagfar after fajar parayer 100 times
Inn shah Allah Allah Subhnatala accept ur apologies
I pray for you
and show ur love to ur mother by giving her any gift
wsalam, if non-Muslim but Cristian or jews then only take care of halal and if they are Hindu or Buddhist then he can't eat better to find other place
Allah Subhnatala give him strength
wsalam
usko pani say dohya Jaye
Salam alykum
koi reason ho ga Kay woh ghar aaker aesa kertay hongain... app inko aur mohabbat aur respect dain... istrhan unko khud aehsaas hoga... ghar jub sakoon kee jaga hoo tu insaan ghar main araam Pata hay
baqi jab unka mood acha ho tu indirectly unko batain Kay ikhlaq acha insaan ko hamesha zinda rekhta hay
akhir main app unkay liye dua karain her namaz main
wsalam
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🌼 The primary step is _performing all the wajib actions_ and _avoiding all haram acts_. To know what these are, one should read:
💥 _"Tawzih al masail"_ (rules on jurisprudence) as well as other books such as
💥 _"Greater sins"_ of Shaheed Dastghaib,
💥 _"The obligatory and forbidden acts in Islam"_ of Ayatullah Mishkini and
💥 _"Introduction to sins"_ of Agha Qara'ti.
🌼 Have a yearly account of your money and belongings _(khums)_.
🌼 _Stay away from sins_, especially lying, backbiting, wasting other people's money/belongings and slandering others.
🌼 _Pray on time_ and in congregation (jamaat).
🌼 Read _Quran_ reguarly, even if it is just 20 verses a day.
🌼 Build relationship with _scholars and religious gatherings_.
🌼 Also bear in mind the importance of _helping the poor_ and the needy.
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