Maulana Nusrat Bukhari
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Name: Maulana Nusrat Bukhari
Age: 42
Location: Qom, Iran
Expertize: Purification of soul and family related issues
Question:why we don't have 313 despite having thousands of scholars and students of knowledge. is divine time required for his a.t.f.s. reappearance ?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: wsalam
Imam AS need ppl in every profession plus it's Allah Subhnatala decision when to give permission to Imam ajtf
so we have to ready and work towards reappearance by gaining knowledge and work in specific direction
Question:Salaam alaikum Moulana. Mujhe Allah(s.t.a) Isteghfaar karna hai aur mujhe yaqeen kaise hoga ke Allah ne mere isteghfaar ko qubool kiya hai. aur mujhe isteghfaar ka sabse behtareen tareekha bataye. Mere do masle bahot zyada hai jiski wajah se mai apne aap ko hamesha gunahgaar aur kamzor manti hu, mai namaz ki paband nahi hu aur kabhi long drive karte waqt music lagati hu ke mujhe neend na lagjaye aur mai bahot lazy feel karti hu. namaz ki pabandi nahi hone ke wajah se mere kamai me aur ghar mei barakat nahi hai aur intehai pareshania hai. please mere problems ka solution bata deejiye taaki mai amal karsaku aur music se kaise dur hosakti hu chaahe mai kitna he koshish karu...

Salaam alaikum Moulana. Mere sawal hai
Ruhaniyat kaise haasil hoti hai aur uske liye kya karna padta hai.
Isteghfaar ke kya tareekhe hai aur hame kaise yaqeen hoga ke Allah (s.a) ne hame bakhsh diya hai.
Kya music sunne se hamari ibaadat aur haajat puri nahi hoti?
please mujhe help kijiye.

Ayatollah:Khamenei

Answer: wsalam,
rohaniyat wajibaat per ammal kernay say aur haram say door honay say hasil hote hay,
rohaniyat koi aese cheez nahe Kay koi ik ammal kernay say hasil hoo, apni zindagi Kay her ammal ko dehyan say anjam Dena,
her lamhay apnay app ko Allah Subhnatala ka bunda smjhna,Rasool e Khuda SAWW say mohabbat kerna unke sunnat per ammal kerna,wilyat ahlebait AS ko tasleem aur unke ataat kerna,
apnay huqooq sahe Ada kerna etc
astagfar zabani bhe hay aur ammal say bhe hay yani dobara woh ammal na kerna
rooz ik tasbeh astagfar kee fajar aur asar kee namaz Kay baad perhain, baqi Allah Subhnatala reham kernay wala hay humain hemsha iss per Yaqeen hona chaye,
music say Murad ghanay weghra hain tu yaqeenun iss Kay negative effects life per perhtay hain,

Illtemasedua
Question:salam alaikum moulana. kya music sunna haraam hai. agar kabhi drive karte waqt neend ke wajah se sunna agar chaahe to..Aur kya Music sunne se hamari namaz qubool nahi hoti hai aur kya hamari haajat puri nahi hoti hai moulana.

Ayatollah:Khamenei

Answer: wsalam,
haram music kee definition, Tuze ul masail main hay,
usually app kee Murad ager songs say hay tu woh haram Kay zumray main aain gain,
laikin ager koi tarana hay ya aese kalam jis ka talluq Islam, tuheed, naat etc tu issues nahe
asal maqsaad Kay koi bhe cheez hum kiss liye ker rehay hain yeah important hay,
baqi haram music Sunnay say ik ghunnah anjam Pata hay jis Kay assraat hotay hain,
drive kertay hoye koi speech Quran aur normal radio talk program bhe sunna ja sakta hay
Question:salam maulana sahab, meri wife ko kabhi kabhi mere bhai ki ya mummy ki koi baat buri lag jati hai to woh mujse share karti h. jab woh mujse gusse me share karti hai or mere gharwalo ki burai krti hai toh muje bhot bura lagta hai. ab aise me mai agar apne gharwalo ki side se bolun to usko bura lagega or agar uski han me han milaun to usko or mauka miljayga burai krne ka, ajeeb pareshani me fhas gaya hun mai. plz batayen k mera reaction is halat me kaisa hona chahiye

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Balkay dunno Kay dermain mohabbat peada karain
Aur na hee ghar waloon Kay dermain Beth ker wife ko bura bolain
Thora strick hona perhta hay
Chote batoon per tawajho mat dain
Ignore karain
Baqi namaz main sub Kay liye dua karain
Indirectly baat ko convey karain
100 times salwat perh ker hazrat Abbas AS kee walida ko hadiya karain
Inn shah Allah mushkil hal ho Jaye gee.
Question:salam alaikum maulana sahab. mai 30 saal ka hun. muje bachpan se bhot zaada gussa aata hai. ab mai shadi shuda hun. shadi k baad bhi muje kai sari baton p gussa ata h mai wife p gussa krta hun woh roti h fir agar uski awaz zara si bhi tez hoti h toh mera gussa or badhta h. kuch baton p mera gussa jayaz h lekin choti choti baton p bhi gussa ata h. maine suna h k rasule khuda ne kisi shaqs se teen baar kaha k gusse p qaabu pao. lekin kya rasule khuda ne koi tariqa ya technique bhi batayi k kaise gussa control karen? shukriya. mai har situation me chahe woh badi ho ya choti , har chiz me gussa kam krna chahta hun. net par kafi chizen padhi hai maine. bus aap koi practical tariqa batayen inshala

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Salam alykum,
zindagi bht short hay aur ager hum chtay hain isko sahe enjoy karain tu humain ziada thankful hona chaye,
shukar kerna jo chezain Allah Subhnatala nay ata farmye hain khud ba khud jo chezain nahe hay ya sahe nahe hain Kay aehsaas ko kum ker dayta hay
2nd gusa per qaboo kerna Kay liye app fajar Kay baad 100 dafa astagfar karain
100 dafa din main daroodh perhain
Inn shah Allah kam ho ga
qayyamat per tawajho karain duniya Kay gussay ko khatum ker day ga
illtemasedua
Question:shukriya maulana saab jawab k liye. mera ek or sawal h thoda tulani sawal h. meri shadi ko 7 mahine hue hain. ek bat ki wajah se shayad mai apni wife ko chhod hun. wife har 3rd ya 4th day apne mayke jati h or har sunday mai bhi usko leke jata hun. iske alawa roz wo apne ghar p fone p bi baten krti h kafi der tak. or kabi kabi uske kehne p mai use 2 se 3 din k liye mayke me rehne bi deta hun. lekin muje yeh ny pasand. 10 se 15 din me ek bar ghar jaye to mai razi hun, 2 se 3 din me ek bar fon p bat ho to bi mai razi hun, lekin aksar jana muje acha ny lagta. mai use chillata hun gussa krta hun wo rone lagti h , kehti h k apko kya pareshani h agar hum apne prents se milte hain or bat krte hain. hum unhe dekhlete hain har do din me to hume sukoon milta h. mai samajta hun k yeh mohobat ka mamla h,kuch galti uske parents ki bi h k woh bi meri wife se puchte rehte h k kab aogi. muje lagta h k agar aisa hi h to aisi ladkiyon ko shadi nahi krni chahiye jo apne shuhar ka farmaan na maan saken. maine use samjhaya bi k shadi k bad shauhar ko zada importance dena chahiye or ye to nizam h k ek din ladki ko apna ghar chodna padta h. khuda janta h k mai parents se milne k khilaf ny hun bus jo limit cros hori h isse muje taqlif h. aay din in baton p hamara arguemnt hota h. mera dimagi sukon khatm ho chuka h,office me bhi concentrate ny kr pata hun. ab aisa lagra h k mai use chod dun taake wo jinhe zada miss krri h unhi k sath rahe. kya iska koi hal h. maine suna h k aurat p wajib h k wo shauhar ki bat maane. agar apko lagta h k meri isme koi galti h to bi muje zarur bataiye. anjane me ake koi galat faisla na lun isliye plz help

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: wsalam, yeah baat app unkay parents say karain tafseel say, thanda hoo ker, hamesha ghar abaad kerni kee such rekhain, positive sochna halat ko badal daita hay
ager sahe trekay say baat kerain gain tu woh samjh jain gain
2nd app apni wife ko mohabbat aur care dain gain tu woh khud apki tarf mutuwjha hoo gee
Question:shukriya maulana saab jawab dene k liye. Aksar ye hota h k meri wife ko meri ammi ki koi baat buri lagti h toh wo mujse share karti h. do baar maine ammi se is baare me baat kii to ammi ko laga k wife ne mere kaan bhare or shikayat kiii, par meri wife ne sirf mujse share kiya tha uska yeh mtlab ny tha k mai uski side se ammi se baat karun. kya aurton ko shauhar se yeh sab discuss ny krna chahiye. kya shauhar ko yeh sab sunne k bad maa se discuss krna chahiye. agar wife share na kare or dil me preshan rahe to bi sahi ny h. or agar wife ka sunke maa se share karun toh maa k dil me wife k liye nafrat paida hogi. Aisi situation ko handle krne ka sahi tarika kya h jisse dono k dil me mohobbat bani rahe

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: wife say sun ker mother ko na batain
aur na mother say sun ker wife ko
indirectly situation ko handle karain
wsalam
Question:salam alaikum. ek meri bhot kharab aadat h, shayad is adat ki wajah se ek din meri wife mujse alag hojaygi. misaal k taur p jab meri wife koi galti kar jati hai or jab mai gussa krta hun to woh maan bhi leti h or yeh bhi kehti h next tym wo is bat ka dhyan rkhegi. lekin fir bhi mai yehi baat pakde rehta hun k yeh hua q. aisa q kiya, krne k pehle socha q nahi. halake wo galti maan ri h fir bhi....is adat se mai kaise bahar niklun, please help Aaga.

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: astagfar karain ziada
apnay present per shukar karain, don't live in past werna present bhe khrab aur future bhe kharab ho Jaye ga,
jab Allah Subhnatala humko maaf kerta hay tu humko bhe dosron ko maaf kerna chaye
Question:salam alaikum Maulana Sahab. Aaj mai life ke us stage me hun jahan par muje kafi chizen pata toh hai k kya kya sahi hai or kya galat, lekin mai ose kar nahi pa raha hun. Apni aadaton se bahar nahi nikal pa raha hun. Masalan kafir k hath ka khana galat h, gussa karna acha ny hai, namaz wajib h. Pata hone k baad bhi mai gusse karta hun, office me kafir ka pakaa hua khana khata hun, or namaz bi ny padta.Yeh kuch chizen hain, aisi kayi chizen sirf muje pata h lekin os par amal karna mere liye mushkil hora h. Is tarah se zindgi ny guzarna muje. Jo chizen janta hun , os p amal krunga to hi to os ka fayda hasil kr sakta huna. khali knowldge rkhna or dusro ko batana or dusro se expect krna k woh najiz giza na khayen, wo music na sune,etc.. To jo pata h uspe amal kaise karun. shukriya.

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: ammal app nay kerna hay
abhe say shrow ker dain
koi zaburdasti tu nahe kerwa sakta
apnay liye dua karain Kay Allah Subhnatala app ko tufeeq ata farmye
baqi hum bhe dua goo hain
kisse ik kaam say shorow karain...
Question:salam alaikum, mai apni wife ki har baat me yaqin karne k liye kabhi usse quran ki, kabhi uske parents ki or kabhi meri, kabhi pet me jo hai 6 mahine ka baccha uski qasam khil waata hun. Qasam khilwane ki adat muje isliye padi q k pehle kafi baar yeh hua k jab maine usse kuch pucha to kuch jawab mila or jab qasam khilwaae to sahi jawab dia usne. shayad qasam khilwana sahi ny h lekin fir mai kya karun? mera bharosa toota h, isliye qasam khilwake sukoon milta h. agar mai galat hun to muje sahi raasta bataiye

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: qasam kee adat ager ho Jaye tu phir har baat per qasam kahni perhti hay
yahe baat app apni wife ko samjhain Kay beghair qasam Kay saach bolain
aur ager woh ammal na Karin tu phir yahe behtar hay
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