Maulana Nusrat Bukhari
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Name: Maulana Nusrat Bukhari
Age: 42
Location: Qom, Iran
Expertize: Purification of soul and family related issues
Question:I would like to ask a question regarding family life. My family is very cultural and my siblings are living like westerners, not really caring about religion a single bit except my sisters wear hijab but still has unislamic behavior and foul language and so does the rest of my family. I feel very lonely in my family as I’m the only practicer and I’m being judged a lot for being “too extreme” and “too religious”. I have noticed some of their bad manners have had an impact on me. Such as being negative, interrupting or being flippant and I truly dislike these habits in myself. I just have a hard time getting rid of them. I hope you can give me some advice on what to do

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: I understand it's hard but it's a great opportunity, so take every things positively, don't care much of their behaviour, do your practice, engage your self in some other activities, be normal in front of them,work on your profession or studies,prove yourself a successful person, pray for them, love them, show your care for them, give some time more to your self alone in ibadat, reading Quran.
Question:I listen Your Majlis Often on Online. I want to know from which book you say the waqea of life of ayatullahs. Which book can i get waqeas of normal people meeting Imam Mehdi(atfs)

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: It's not one book different books and from my teachers, but if you find ayatollah shaheed dastagheb book of daastaan, I think it's available in Urdu
Question:I'm a medical student pursuing internship presently but I've been always feeling low and negative regarding most things in life. I don't know how most small problems make me feel anxious and angry. I want to be successful and avoid worrying so much. Another problem I have is difficulty in making choices even simple ones. Please help me out

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Ignore is best thing in daily life, better concentrate on big goals, ignore small matters and go on, read daroodh 100 times a day makes you feel better, find motivation, do astghfar as well 100 times after fajar Namaz.
Question:For the past two or three years ago, i guess because of changing trends of clothes, people started being rude to me, i wasn't big on wearing trendy clothes, but after the weirdness, I started to wear trendy clothes. Alhumdulillah the problem went down. Then i started to gain some weight, people would treat me somewhat weird. I am tired of the discrimination and weird treatment by people ,and i am sensitive to the slightest things. So what can i do to make the problem go away once and for all. Is there a dua you can give me to recite in order so i dont look weird or dua to gain respect, or dua to remove peoples weird behaviours?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: You have to change your view about this world, it's a temporary place, and actual is Akhrat, so we have to live according to that. Wearing and lifestyle is OK if it's in boundaries of Islam, rest about people so we cannot make every single person be happy with us.
It's better to do such things that makes Allah Subhnatala happy, He can change the behavior of people, so reduce ur sensitivity, live your own, do pray punctual and read hades e kisa once a week
Question:I have a question my parents made me marry my cousin from back home. I did not wanted to marry her they kept on asking me to marry her for like 3 to 4 years. Recently I went back home and got married to her. When i came back she kept on calling I didnt wanted to talk to her then told her I dont want you anymore. I said divorce 4 to five times. Am i still her husband? Is marriage is broken now?

Ayatollah:Islamic

Answer: Divorce not applied by just saying yourself to wife, it's almost like nikah and scholar have to recite with two ghawa, you are still her husband, and it's not good to leave someone without any reason
Question:Mera aapse sawal hai k mai aise halat me kya karu k mere shohar koi kaam nhi karte aur apni zimmedari ka ehsas nahi hai. hamari shadi ko 4saal ho rahe hai aur unka kehna hai k mujse shadi me baad unke halat aise ho gaye pehle unka kaam bht acha tha par shadi k baad unke halat kharab ho hai to mai apse puchna chahti hu kya sach me aisa hora hai aur hamare bich na ittefaqi but Bach hai hai plz koi hal bataiyye

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Aesa kuch nahe. Insaan apnay amaal say rizq barha saktha hay.

Fajar Kay baad 100 times astghfar karain, apnay daily kay kamoon per tawajha dain, sadqa dain, kaam kee koshish karain.
Question:My son has a problem with his speech and he cannot speak looking into anyone's eyes, which is a big problem for us in his admission in school. Also, he has become very stubborn (ziddi) and is minor autistic child. Please help is to cure him with some surahs and amals.

Ayatollah:Khamenei

Answer: Well I advise to see child psychiatrist because he needs one to one session plus you have to check your routine about his ziddi attitude, have to find reason.

Read daroodh tasbeh and recite ayatulkursi beside him when sleeping.
Question:I want a help from you actually mere husband me pehle kuch buri aadate thi but Alhumdolillah ab nhi hai lekin phir b jab kabi vo mere se dur kahi kaam k lia b jate hai aur kabi late ho gae ya call nhi lagta hai reply nhi karte hai to mere zahen me unko leke bure khayal aane lagte hai jaise vo phir se koi Haram kaam me lag gae. Mai aise sab khayal se bachna chahti hu kyu k bolte hai na bura socho to bura hi hota hai please mujhe koi amal batae.

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Acha sochay, Allah subhantala per bahrosa rekhain, aur Ahlebait AS say tawasul karain, woh khud hifazat karain gain
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