Maulana Syed Abul Qasim Rizvi
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Name: Maulana Syed Abul Qasim Rizvi
Age: 45
Location: Sydney
Expertize: Any General related queries
Question:Asslam alaykum, i am in a situation and would like to know what is the ruling on marriage without the fathers consent. I am a 26 year old female living in the states, i have completed a bachelors in accounting and am financially independent, still living with my parents. I met a shia man (same ethnicity and religion) 3 years ago and introduced him to my parents. My parents both had objections towards him, my father did not like the fact he was religious and my mother opposed him because he did not finish university (though he has some credits and he has his own business in the states). I spoke to a local sheikh who had a meeting with my parents and told me their reasons are not valid for denying this man however i must try to change their opinion. I have spent the last 2 and half years trying. The sheikh is the only sheikh in our community and he said i can get married without my parents consent but i should do so with another sheikh not in the community so that my parents do not get mad at him. I really do not know what else to do. I feel my parents denial is not valid and i want to proceed with marrying this man. This situation is really weighing me down emotionally mainly beacuse of the lack of effort/support from my parents, if they have good reason to deny this man then say so but they are just watching the years go by and seeing me suffer. I really need some advice, thank you.

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Walaikumussalam Sister
I do understand your situation I am convinced but Sister this is the ruling
Your shaikh is absolutely right you must have permission from your father as he is your wali(guardian)
I suggest you to involve local. Sheikh or family members to convince your parents.
I'm praying to Allah for your happy successful blessed life .
Aameen
Wassalam
Question:what is the ruling for females wearing nail polish whether they are able to pray or not.

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Salamunalaikum
They can pray but it is an obstacle at the time of wudhu therefore it must be removed before wudhu and and ghusl.
Wassalam
Question:Assalamun Aalaykum Hamaray baday bai mom aur dad ko acchi tarah baat nahi kartay hamaisha gussay mai rehta hai family kay sath gussay mai baat karta hai bahar walong se acchay se sulook karta haiHamaray baday bai mom aur dad ko acchi tarah baat nahi kartay hamaisha gussay mai rehta hai family kay sath gussay mai baat karta hai bahar walong se acchay se sulook karta hai

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Walaikumussalam
Hum unke haq me dua karte hain Khuda kare family ke sath bhi achi tarah bat karein Magar aap unke sath tub bhi ache Se bat karein
Allah hidayat kare kyonke Ma baap Ki respect wajib hai
Wassalam
Question:ahle sunnat have this hadith of eating dates line one, three, five etc. do we have any such hadith from the prophet or from the ahlul bayt

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Walaikumussalam
Meri Nazar Se Aisi Hadees nahi guzri hai
Wassalam
Question:I have heard two varying accounts on Bibi Sakina. One is popularly narrated, that she was young child that died in the prison of Damascus. The other was she survived Karbala and lived to see Imam Sadiq. Which one is accurate?I have heard two varying accounts on Bibi Sakina. One is popularly narrated, that she was young child that died in the prison of Damascus. The other was she survived Karbala and lived to see Imam Sadiq. Which one is accurate?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Walaikumussalam
These are the two different personalities both narrations are in the history. But the young and the who has suffered lot and martyred in prison is authentic and she was janab e Sakina as
Wassalam