Mualimah Nasim Walji
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Name: Mualimah Nasim Walji
Age: NIL
Location: Birmingham, UK
Expertize: Spirituality, Women`s Role in the Ghaybah of the Awaited Saviour Imam Al Mahdi, Self Development throught the Mustical Prayers and Supplications of the 4th Holy Imam Sajjad in Sahifa Sajjadiya and Family Life in Islam
Question:Very angry and upset with my mother because she said and did something to me that really upset me. I suffer from depression and major anxiety knowing all this and the medication that I take my mother still misbehaved with me. My state of mind is very sensitive and my mother does not help with the matter .She also talks to me and upset me deliberately and makes me look like a disrespectful Daughter amongst my family members . If I don’t speak to my mum will I get punished? Will my prays not be accepted. I just don’t want to see her because she upsets me what do you advice ?

Ayatollah:N/a

Answer: I fully empathise with you. I also understand that you go through depression and anger outbursts.
However, your mother is your mother no matter what.You still need to respect her. You cannot stop your relationship with your mother.
Find out why she does what she does and what makes you angry.
Islam gives a very high regard for noble etiquettes and you need good communication. Try and find someone who con mediate between the two of you.
Pray to Allah to help you and your mother make your mother happy and find out the root cause of all this.
Question:What advice can I give to someone who is struggling to surpress anger at home and gets very irritable due to stress they are going through in their personal life? How can they gain sabr and control/help themselves?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Best way to control this anger bouts is through dhikr of salawat and remaining in wudhu. but one needs to have faith in this. also to go through self reflection and self introspection as to why one is getting angry
Question:Can you tell me the concept of standing close to each other while performing salah like they say feet's should meet each other feet's and same for shoulders.

Ayatollah:Khamenei

Answer: You need to fill the huge gaps in between the mussalleen and try to be shoulder to shoulder. showing unity and solidarity in humility
Question:I have many menstrual pain and the doctor referred me to a gynecology they want to do a internal echo because they think that i have a sickness and they can see it only with that echo. Im a virgin and not married and my question is if i can do the internal echo or not. Is that haram ?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: According to what you have mentioned, if there is a necessity to be examined by a gynecologist, it is permissible to get the test done.
As long as you have asked for a 2nd opinion from specialists than you are allowed to go for the test for further investigation.
Question:I wanted to ask if it is possible for women who is divorced(kulah) by a (REMOVED) Maulana and stayed away from husband from past X years and a week back she has got divorced (Kulah) re read by Shia maulana to perform nikah or she is supposed to wait for 4 months period?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: The Divorce has to be reread and will be proceeded by the Eddah period after pronunciation of Talaq Al Khula. Divorce cannot be recited if one is in her monthly periods.
Question:Can you please list me out much and more details regarding nafl prayers. exact timings and if 8 rakah for zohr is it to be performed just like obligatory zohr namaz divided 4*4??

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Yes the nafila of dhohr and asr is just like the ritual Salaat that we pray wajib everyday. The timings for dhuhr and asr is before the actual dhuhr and asr salaat
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