1) A person has hit his wife during pregnancy in the past and hits her now with things such as steel bottle. Is it allowed? His reason for hitting is that she does not cook for his family. Is cooking for in-laws wajib upon her?

2) Also the husband has not taken responsibility of paying expenses of the wife as well as his children. It has been more than 10 years of marriage. He never pays the food expenses, cloth expenses, house rent etc. Is that okay? The wife herself pays all of the expenses

1) No it is forbidden to hit her, and she is not obligated to cook for his family.

2) No it is not okay