1) If someone's wife is far and cant control his sexual desire, is he allowed to look at his wife's photo etc and pleasure it by himself ?2) Can he do mutah with a christian lady without his wifes permission as the wife is far? March 25, 2021 by Hasan mahdi 1- Yes, but without masturbation, or any act that leads to ejaculation. 2- No, even with her permission Sheikh Mohammad Habeeb englishmarriage