A few weeks ago my grandmother passed away because of Corona. Whenever my mother, aunt, uncle etc cry something bad happens. Once they cried much and then my uncle got corona, he’s in the ICU now. One time my aunt cried and then a few minutes later her son burned his hand. Why does something bad happen every time we cry about her? And how should we deal with it? It feels like it isn’t permissible to cry

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I don’t think it’s related to crying. Everyone cries. It’s a series of tests God is putting your family through. You are somehow linking it to crying. It’s very unlikely. You must stay strong, patient and give lots of sadaqa and do good deeds for protection.

Too much crying over a dead person is also not recommended and should not happen. Yes we can cry but excessive crying becomes questioning God