I am on my spiritual journey and I’m on a phase where I am trying to get rid of bad habits. But I am stuck on one. Anger. It’s always been my biggest problem. That and lust but I can control my lustful desires but anger is something that I can’t control. The problem is I thought I was done with it and I wasn’t anger for a couple week but then I got anger once and it was like a snow ball effect. Now I got super anger at my brother for not respecting me. That’s a problem with my little brothers they don’t have much respect. So I am not sure what to do. Because if I just let them disrespect me then it’ll make me seem like a coward but if I say anything it comes out to be like a dictator.

I ask Allah to help you on this spiritual journey. I recommend seeing the following:

https://youtu.be/yVQUqMp1bAA

https://youtu.be/SSgMVlh7A_o