You have to change your view about this world, it's a temporary place, and actual is Akhrat, so we have to live according to that. Wearing and lifestyle is OK if it's in boundaries of Islam, rest about people so we cannot make every single person be happy with us.
It's better to do such things that makes Allah Subhnatala happy, He can change the behavior of people, so reduce ur sensitivity, live your own, do pray punctual and read hades e kisa once a week