How does one tell a sibling that they don’t want to attend there wedding as their will be music, I think throughout the whole wedding until they may talk. I also think there may dance at the end as I attended a cousins wedding in the past, they had that. The sibling said it will be similar to that cousins wedding. My family are not religious and I have been blessed to follow the path of the Ahlulbayt (as). I have gone in the past to cousin wedding and I felt bad attending as I did not know that it would happen. I have nothing against my sibling and are happy for them to start a new life of marriage. I don’t want to attend as I don’t want to put myself in an position that disobeys Allah swt. I also don’t feel comfortable attending, it will cost a lot of expense to actual attend the venue as it is out of London. I don’t feel comfortable as I will be the only one wearing a hijab. I am proud of wearing my hijab, but not attending a function like this. The sibling may cause an grudge as they may not want to talk to me for not attending the wedding. We are not close siblings. I know that you need to keep good relationship with family members even if you don’t get along with them, at least the minimum.