I am a newly wed. Music was played without my consent on the day by relatives of mine and it has really upset my husband and he isn’t forgiving me for this grave mistake despite how much I’ve apologised and asked for forgiveness. He no longer trusts me and feels very disrespected and I’m worried he will leave me. His family are also all upset so my parents talking to them hasn’t changed anything. I’m lost for ideas Is there anything you suggest I could say or do to fix this?

This is not your mistake, he cannot blame you. Even if it was your mistake, after seeking forgiveness nothing will remain of guilt. Allah is all forgiving. It is not disrespecting. Everyone is responsible of his own act and deeds.