This is a very common rhetoric often said by woman who don’t wish to wear the hijab. The most basic question that they often overlook is that hijab has never been a matter of choice. Once you sign to be a Muslim you are admitting total submission to Allah before anything else. Whatever reason or philosophy we may give to others about why a woman should observe the hijab the one thing that we must keep in mind it’s what allah wanted. This kind of argument will lead to a very complicated relationship later on as there will be no compatibility of belief.