Wailing is recommended for Imam Hussain (as) in many narrations.
When we have a loss in our lives we remember and mourn Imam.
I highly recommend this book
Commemorating the Mourning Rights of Imam al-Husayn https://smile.amazon.com/dp/1514298619/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_25H7R9JH0X7R70JBFGW6
https://youtu.be/Fdt19d8E90Q