I wanted to ask a question about Mutah. I am currently in contact with a guy who is quite serious about our relationship and want to take it further. Both of our families are aware that we talk to each other and do not have any objections with that. But we have never met yet and are planning to meet in a while. So, I and the guy, both want to perform Mutah to stay in a Halal relationship, but my father doesn't agree with that thinking that the boy will take advantage of it.

So I wanted to ask you how can I convince my father to let me perform Mutah, and should I do it?
And also is it possible if my father put some conditions ?