If I’m married to a boy do i need to listen to everything he says? Example if sayid sistani accepts something that i can do and my husband dont. Must i listen to my husband? August 1, 2018 by Hasan mahdi You have to obey your husband in the matter of sexual intercourse and leaving the house. Other than that, it is mustahab to obey unless he asks you to do something haraam when you will not obey. Sayed Zafar Abbas marriage