If my friend is kafir and touch for exemple the door with her wet hand how I can purify the door?
If I take a wet sponge and clean the door, the wet sponge become najis as well?
How to do?

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For najasat (excluding urine) you need to remove the essential impurity then if using small amount of water, like from a water bottle for example, you pour one time and it is purified.

Yes in your case if you used a wet sponge to clean the impurity it would make the sponge najas.