Is it ok to listen romantic songs with your husband? If yes than what are the hadiths or sayings which allow us to listen songs because I think that there is no problem in listening songs with your husband. Ofcourse there should be no vulgur lines in the song. If yes, than can one listen while recalling his/her partner when they are not present with each other?

I do not know what are romantic songs but if they contain bad words and the way they are sang matches the way used in dancing clubs and pubs, then it is haram.