Me and my husband were having a discussion and he says that for him children (we have 3 children alhamdolillah) are his first love and I come second. Can you please share your view regarding this. July 20, 2022 by Hasan mahdi his is normal, because they are part of him, and for sure the same applies to you, so do not make it big deal. Sheikh Mohammad Habeeb englishmarriage