My husband has not paid it as his situations he has been in after the nikah made it difficult to obtain it. Is it possible for me to lower it after it has been agreed upon? May 5, 2023 by Hasan mahdi Yes if it’s ok with you and you want to relieve him from some of it, you have the right to do that and in fact Allah will reward you for that. Sayed Mohammad Baqer Qazwini englishmarriage