Yes it is very difficult time it is resting period for every shia.obey your father he is right because debate is not solution it causes for more division. Some people are telly they are innocent they need guidance but that only capable people can do. Try to preserve the unity because enemy. Wants to divide us.
Only the role who can play they are ulama let play their role wherever they need your help go forward and help them.
This matter can be resolve with wisdom. Patience and strategy.