Salam
Moulana this is a question for some1
I am asking on behalf

what is the Shia ruiling on sexual fantasy example
can husband and wife discuss sex and talk about their past and what they like and may be talk about others but it will remain with them only .

also in oral sex
is licking and sucking allowed.

sorry to ask you these type of questions
but it could save some body from GUNAAH

also if you can provide references for the answer you give would be great

khfzz

wsalam, as per ahadees Husband and wife can talk abt sex but not abt others bcoz it can lead them to ghunnah
about oral sex you have to see tuzee ul masail