So if they both are not initiating the intimacy even after 4 months is it permissible? Also if the wife has previously denied the husband on an occasion what should she do? May 5, 2023 by Hasan mahdi 1- As long as they both are ok with it then it’s fine 2- She must seek forgiveness from Allah, and be determined not to deny again Sayed Mohammad Baqer Qazwini englishmarriage