The Imams (AS) mention finding a compatible spouse. Is this compatibility confined to only having good religion or are there other aspects to it because when I met this potential spouse she has good religion and a good family but when I asked her certain questions we didn’t have much in common so maybe there is a personality difference.

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The traditions say that we should find a believer and someone with good character. Thus, everything else is what we work on together and develop in a relationship. Sometimes there is no connection initially but then it develops. But, if there is too much difference personality-wise and no connection at all then you are not compelled. May Allah give you a wonderful spouse