The marriage is X years. The loved one is the one that is the only one working. Has a lot of responsibility, as they provide for their own family, as well as spouse.

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Perhaps you would need to get your local religious scholar involved for mediating. X years of marriage is still very fresh and you really need to understand his psyche and begin to work own your positive communication skills with your husband.
at this point I can only suggest:
1. Praying for your marriage to blossom
2. To be God conscious at all times.
3. Positive communication skills.
4. Trust in God