I have read this incident mentioned many times on the internet. A few times it was associated with imam Jaffar saqiq(as).
Can you kindly verify if it's actually a saying of imam jaffar sadiq(as) or not?

The incident follows like:

Once there was a man who did Tohmat of our Sixth Imam Sadiq (a.s.). Imam Sadiq (a.s.) did no know about it until a few days later when one of his 'friends' came to him and said, "Oh Imam, I have heard terrible news. This person has been going around and saying this about you."
Imam Sadiq (a.s.) became angry at his 'friend'. He said, "Think of the person who did Tohmat towards me as if he shot an arrow at my body. I did not hear him so it is as if the arrow missed me; But by telling me this news, you have picked up the arrow from the ground and have hit me with it."


Non religiously it is also mentioned like:

“I heard this man say things about you behind your back.”
“He shot an arrow and it missed me, why have you picked it up to stab me with it?"

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So can you kindly verify if this incident happened with imam jaffar saqiq(as)? If this saying is accurate and associated with imam? If yes kindly provide sources to back it up. I'd appreciate that.

I can’t verify it but such moral stories are there and it dies not conflict with the concept of naneema in the quran when some one passes Ill talk of a person to him abd causes damage to relations thus such concept is seriously condemned so the story corresponds the quranic concept.

Jag vet att om jag reser under månaden ramadan så måste jag haft avsikten sedan en dag tillbaka, samt resa innan dhuhr för bryta fastan. Men ska jag fasta eller bryta fastan om jag samma morgon bestämmer mig för resa 44km+ innan dhuhr?

För följande av s sistani dz , behöver du inte att göra avsikt en dag innan resa. Du kan bestämma samma dagen så längre så resar du innan dhur, men du kan inte äta i din hemstan, du kan avbryta fast efter 4-5 km utifrån av din hemstan.

Please can you give me more information about mutha . I want to end my mutha early because my husband is not being nice to me so how do i do that ??

Your husband needs to indicate that he has relieved u from the remaining period or he clearly states that he has ended the muta with u.

I live in Florida but travel weekly to Michigan where my wife lives. During Ramadan, is it permissible for me to travel before Dhuhr from FL to MI and return same day with voiding my fast?

If u leave your home town after zohr u complete your fast.
If you leave your hometown before zohr you break your fast in the trip.
It is not forbidden on a fasting person to travel however the question that pops up is when does my fast break if I travel, this the criteria is Zohr.

Understood the concept of breaking the fast when traveling before Dhuhr. However, as mentioned I work/live in Florida but my family is still living in Michigan. I have been traveling weekly for the weekend to Michigan for over a year’s time span. Since this is ongoing weekly travel to a city where my wife lives/works permanently & has residence, can I not complete my fast? My intention is to just travel for the day, leave in the morning arriving Michigan before Dhuhr and return to Florida in the evening arriving just after Maghreb

It is problematic unless you are considered a frequent traveler who travels frequently for a minimum of 10 days each month for continuous 6 months in one year. If that applies then for sure u have to fast in all your trips

I live in Florida but travel weekly to Michigan where my wife lives. During Ramadan, is it permissible for me to travel before Dhuhr from FL to MI and return same day with voiding my fast?

If u leave your home town after zohr u complete your fast.
If you leave your hometown before zohr you break your fast in the trip.
It is not forbidden on a fasting person to travel however the question that pops up is when does my fast break if I travel, this the criteria is Zohr.

Understood the concept of breaking the fast when traveling before Dhuhr. However, as mentioned I work/live in Florida but my family is still living in Michigan. I have been traveling weekly for the weekend to Michigan for over a year’s time span. Since this is ongoing weekly travel to a city where my wife lives/works permanently & has residence, can I not complete my fast? My intention is to just travel for the day, leave in the morning arriving Michigan before Dhuhr and return to Florida in the evening arriving just after Maghreb

It is problematic unless you are considered a frequent traveler who travels frequently for a minimum of 10 days each month for continuous 6 months in one year. If that applies then for sure u have to fast in all your trips

I am getting continuous doubts since last two days about ALLAH swt

I am having thoughts which says that there is no GOD (astagferullah) i know there is one ALLAH swt but my thoughts says how can i prove it to myself

That is seriously dangerous fight it through two things
Read sura NAAS as much as u can it is the best.

Read more material on Allah swt

while doing masa should one do it from the middle of the head or he can perform it from side also?

W salm Massa in done in the middle frontal quarter of the head if the head is divided into four pie sections. Thus it should cover the frontal quarter of the pie.

How does one help someone that has stopped praying salat, only work focused?

it is very important to inform that person about Allah swt and His existence, love and how to establish a connection with Him. Then the emphasis of Salaat and its philosophy is embedded in that persons heart.

I have a qs, i am a nurse and sometimes i have to make breakfast ready. I touch not halal meat, is that haram or unclean? And is it also haram to touch meat from pork?

It’s not haram to touch and clean the meat. But haram to touch meat from pork.
Try to avoid that insha Allah

And if i touch meat from pork should i make wudu’ from najes?

Yes you should clean your hands and renew your wudhu. Best solution is to avoid touching the meat at all. Speak to the hospital and they will Insha Allah understand

I am a nurse and sometimes i have to make breakfast ready. I touch not halal meat, is that haram or unclean? And is it also haram to touch meat from pork?

It not not forbidden to you touch those najis objects Howe er, the Hands can be washed and purified.

I have received a gift of Green Sapphire ring, wanted to check what are the benefits to wear this stone

sistani dz says nothing about zabarjod so if the stone you mentioned is one of these stones http://www.sheikh-alsalami.org.au/essential_grid/islamic-benefits-of-rings-and-stones/
Then u might get the answer.

I have received a gift of Green Sapphire ring, wanted to check what are the benefits to wear this stone.

It is recommended wear Aqeeq, Feroza and Durre Najaf.