Maulana Safdar Razi
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Name: Maulana Safdar Razi
Age: NIL
Location: Sweden
Expertize: Usool, Fiqh, Quranic Science, Logic, Ethics, Histroy Analyst and many more
Question:I wanted to ask a question about Mutah. I am currently in contact with a guy who is quite serious about our relationship and want to take it further. Both of our families are aware that we talk to each other and do not have any objections with that. But we have never met yet and are planning to meet in a while. So, I and the guy, both want to perform Mutah to stay in a Halal relationship, but my father doesn't agree with that, thinking that the boy will take advantage of it.

So I wanted to ask you how can I convince my father to let me perform Mutah, and should I do it ?
And also is it possible if my father put some conditions ?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: The conditional Mutah is what most of the parents do, and that is the Muta without touching, only for talking openly about any thing, even about private things, however, any private talk should remain private between the couples unless if it was a confusing matter and required counseling, which much be done with the consensus to disclose such information.
Question:Meri choti (removed) ke bare me pouch na tha. Mera (removed) meri (removed) par had se be had zulm karta hai. Har roz cheeze phenk kar marna gali galoch karna had hai ke raat Gaye 2, 2.30 baje khud aata hai aur isko uttaha kar itne kaam deta hai ke subha tak usko sone thak nai deta. Aur khud subha 4 baje se lekar din ke 2 3 baje thak soya rehte hai. Unki (removed) aur (removed) bhi kuch nai bolti hai. Ek martaba mai ne eteraz kiya toh usne meri (removed) ka (removed) aur (removed) thak mujhe meri (removed) se baat bi nai karne di. Uski maa ka ek beta (removed) me hai jo paise bhejta hai toh iski ghar chalati hai aur meri bhen se sare kaam karwati hai. Meri maa ka bi inteqal hogaya hai. Meri (removed) ka is duniya me mere alawa koi nai hai aur mai apne aap ko bhot majboor mehsoos karti ho. Mere paas koi rahe hal nahi dikh ta. Meri (removed) ki halat janwaron se battar kardi hai unlog ne. Please koi rasta bataiyen. Talaq ki baat maine karri thi bhen se toh usne mujhe bolla ke teri (removed) ko itna badnam kardon ga ke kidar mou dikhane ke qabil nai rahe gi. Please aaga koi rasta batayen.

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: If what you said is true then, this case is a serious case, your sister must contact the police and the social service to get relief, and tell her to recite Dua Joshen Kabeer regularly if not then atleast once a week.
May Almighty swt be with her.
Question:Mera swal ye he ke mujhe kbhi koi khushi ras hi nhi aty. Mene post graduate kiya he but kamyabi bhut dur bhagty he mujh se. Post graduate kr ke bhi ghr ka kam ke alawa kuch nhi krty.
Please koi esa wazifa dijye jisse me bhi dusro ki trha khush reh saku or zindgi me kamyab ho saku

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Salaat Jaffer Tayyar
Dua Joshen Kabeer
Hijab ki pabandi
Ziarat Imam Hussain as or Imam Redha as
Question:هل ممكن ان اخذ استخارة بنفسي ؟ ما هي الشروط ؟ وكيف ؟

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer:
نعم يمكنكم. ويشترط صفاء النفس والخلوص

٣ مرات الصلاة على النبي ويمسك قبضة من السبحة ٢ ٢ فإذا بقيت واحدة غير جيدة واذا بقي ٢ فهو زين

Question:Mai Australia mai rahti hu or mujha yaha py solar eclipse ki timing ka pata nhi chal raha hai. Mai dar sal pregnant hu or suraj girhan mai kuch etiyat hoty hai is liya mera time janna zaroori hai. Maine yeha py mulano se jab ye sawal kiya tho unha ne jawab diya ka Australia mai visible nhi hai tho phir bi mera dil mai shaq hai. Kya mai pakistan ka timing ka mutabik us time py ehtiyat kar sakti hu jesa ka pakistan mai 9:55:13 pm py hai tho yaha py 5 hours ka difference hai thi kya mai 5 hours ka difference se ehiyat karu?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: For solar and lunar eclipse it happens same time as in any other country so if it is happening now in pakistan then it is happening now in Australia
Question:How can i make myself the person Imam Zamana(ajtf) wants?
As a girl?

Ayatollah:Khamenei

Answer: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD2F0DFA18BFBD747
Question:
میں نے اپنے شوھر سے خلع لی جو کہ اک مولانا صاحب نے ٹیلیفون پر ھی کروا دی۔ میرے شوہر نہیں چاہتے تھے کہ میں خلع لوں۔
انھوں نے مجھ سے دوبارہ خاوند والا رشتہ قائم کر لیا ۔ اور یہ بولا کہ چونکہ تم نے غصے اور غم کی وجہ سے خلع لی تھی اور اب تم مجھ سے ناراض نہیں ہو تو ھم اس خلع کو اپنی مرضی سے منسوخ کرنے کا حق رکھتے ہیں ۔
اور دوبارہ رجوع کرنے میں ہم پر کوئی گناہ نہیں ہے ۔
کیا
میری طلاق ھو گئی تھی اسوقت یا منسوخ ھو گئی تھی ۔مجھے اس بات پر شک ہے کہ وہ منسوخ ھو گئی تھی کہ
۔نہیں کیوں کہ میں اپنے شوہر کو طلاق دینا چاھتی تھی لیکن انہوں نے مجھ سے اسی رات دوبارہ زبردستی رشتہ ازدواج قائم کر کے بولا کہ ھم دونوں کا نکاح اس طرح فون پر خلع کے ضیغے پڑھنے سے نہیں ختم ہوا اور ھم ابھی میاں بیوی ہی ہیں ۔
میں
اس بات سے متفق نہیں ھوں کیونکہ اس خلع میں میرا ارادہ شاملِ تھا اور میں اب بھی اس سے طلاق لینا چاھتی ھوں ۔لیکن وہ بولتے ہیں کہ تم خود خلع کی درخواست دو۔میں
تم کوطلاق نہیں دوں گا۔
آپ سے یہ پوچھنا ہے
1 کیا میرا پہلا خلع منسوخ ھو گیا تھا ؟
2 اگر نہیں ھوا تو مجھے اپنے شوھر کےساتھ دوبارہ ازدواجی تعلقات قائم کرنے کا کفارہ ادا کرنا ہو گا ؟
3 اور وہ کفارہ کیا ہو گا ؟
4 اوراب مجھے دوبارہ خلع لینی پڑے گی یا ہو چکی تھی ۔؟
شکریہ ۔

Ayatollah:Khamenei

Answer: Khula means, the wife buys her divorce from the husband. In other words a wife must pay or give up her Mehr to the husband so he can issue the decree of divorce, with at least two witnesses. So your khula has not happened properly, and you are still the wife of your husband.
Question:Mai ahle sunnat ke family se belong karti hun. Islam pe research karne ke baad maine shia hone ka decision li thi. Alhamdulillah ab mai (removed) saal se ahlulbyte a.s pe aqeedat rakhti hun aur unhi ke raste pe chalrahi hu. Mere parents mere namaz pe pabandi lagari or mujhe sajdagah pe namaz padhne se pabandi lagarahi hai. Mere liye sunni ladka dhundrai. Meri maa ka kahna hai ki agar kisi ko pata chale ke mai shia hun tho mujhe koi shadi nahi kare ga aur mere sare city mey koi shia nahi hai. Agr hai bhi tho wo kahi dur hai aur mai girl hun mai khud jake unhe dhund nai sakti. Aap india ke halat jante hai. Yahan pe girl samhal ke rahna padhta hai kisi pe bharosa nai karsakte. Please mere liye koi amal batadijiye ga ki mere liye behtareen Ghulam e Ali a.s naseeb ho.

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Don't worry Allah swt is with you. Read dua Joshen Kabeer once a week for protection and strength. Read every Thursday night Zaiarat Ashooraa with dua Alqama for protection
every night.
If there is a problem on praying on Sajdagah you can pray on a piece of paper, if there is a problem on praying on a paper, then you can pray on prayer carpet in front of them and no need to repeat the salaat. If there is a complication and hardship associated with praying on the Sajdagah then you do not need to put Sjadagah in front of her or in front of any Sunni who becomes annoyed with it and might cause an insult or disrespect to you. As for the marriage with the right person, pray Namaaz Jafer Tayaar daily at night and you will see best results as soon as possible, do not leave this great amazing salaat.
Just keep the faith you are not alone, you have the greatest and the strongest Almighty swt with you. for help call our beloved living 12th Imam AF after doing dua to Allah swt alone, our Imam AS is the helper on the earth appointed by Allah swt.
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