Maulana Syed Abul Qasim Rizvi
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Name: Maulana Syed Abul Qasim Rizvi
Age: 45
Location: Sydney
Expertize: Any General related queries
Question:I really need help. I'm not able to be concentrate on anything, especially prayers. I always have negative thoughts about everything, even when I'm praying. And I don't only think negative, my thinking is actually bad. I believe in Allah (swt) and I know that He will always answer my prayers when I truthfully ask Him, but I'm not even able to ask Him to help me. I feel that I'm lazy to even ask Him anything. My exams are approaching and I know that I'm not making enough Doua. When I pray, my mind is always somewhere else.

I don't know how be concentrate when doing anything, and how to remove all those negative thoughts from my mind.


Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer:

Try to be in the state of the wudhu all the times and read following Aayat after the iqamat before takbeeratul Ehram which helps you to concentrate in prayer kindly read the translation
Holy Quran 6:162
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‎قُلْ إِنَّ صَلَاتِي وَنُسُكِي وَمَحْيَايَ وَمَمَاتِي لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ

Say, "Indeed, my prayer, my rites of sacrifice, my living and my dying are for Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Wassalam

Question:I am addicted to masturbating. I don't know I try to control but can't.I know it's haraam and really want to get rid of this act. Can you please guide me on how to control and suggest me some duas.

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer:

It is haram and read isteghfar to control this habit.
Fear Allah and from the punishment of the day of judgement.

Question:Meri choti (removed) ke bare me pouch na tha. Mera (removed) meri (removed) par had se be had zulm karta hai. Har roz cheeze phenk kar marna gali galoch karna had hai ke raat Gaye 2, 2.30 baje khud aata hai aur isko uttaha kar itne kaam deta hai ke subha tak usko sone thak nai deta. Aur khud subha 4 baje se lekar din ke 2 3 baje thak soya rehte hai. Unki (removed) aur (removed) bhi kuch nai bolti hai. Ek martaba mai ne eteraz kiya toh usne meri (removed) ka (removed) aur (removed) thak mujhe meri (removed) se baat bi nai karne di. Uski maa ka ek beta (removed) me hai jo paise bhejta hai toh iski ghar chalati hai aur meri bhen se sare kaam karwati hai. Meri maa ka bi inteqal hogaya hai. Meri (removed) ka is duniya me mere alawa koi nai hai aur mai apne aap ko bhot majboor mehsoos karti ho. Mere paas koi rahe hal nahi dikh ta. Meri (removed) ki halat janwaron se battar kardi hai unlog ne. Please koi rasta bataiyen. Talaq ki baat maine karri thi bhen se toh usne mujhe bolla ke teri (removed) ko itna badnam kardon ga ke kidar mou dikhane ke qabil nai rahe gi. Please aaga koi rasta batayen.

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer:

Aapki tahreer padh kar bahot dukh howa. Shauhar aur biwi ka rishta ehteram wa mohabbat ka hai. Khuda apke bahnoi ko hidayat kare. Kareem Hamari duaon ko qubool farmaye woh apni biwi ko izzat dein Ghar walon me bhi ehsas e zimmedari aur khauf e Khuda paida ho
Aap unke khandan ke buzurgo aur local alim e deen ko involve karein In’Sha’Allah ummid hai iske nateeje me islah ho jaye. Is tarah ke bahot se cases me islah hoi hai yeh hamara experience hai
Kareem Aapki Bahen ke Daman ko khushiyon se bhar de Marhoomiyo ka khatma ho

Question:Can a wife announce talak for divorce? And if yes, what are the conditions?

Ayatollah:Khamenei

Answer:

She can get the divorce which is known as Khula. For details contact local ulama.

Question:Kya hum sunni ki jammat namaz padh sakte he or kya hum hath band kar bhi padh sakte he

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer:

Hum hath bandh kar nahi padh sakte magar unki jamat me khade ho kar furada ki niyat se namaz padh sakte hain

Question:Hum konsi chez par sajda karsakte he. Kya me chatai pe sajdah karsakta hu? Or me bina sajdahgah ke konsi chez par sajdah karsakta hu?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer:

Har woh cheiz jo khane aur pahenne ke liye istemal hoti hai us par sajda nahi ho sakta. Mitti stones, patte(leaf) aur wood par sajda kar sakte hain

Question:Is it permissible to recite qaza or ada namaz e maghrabain in whispers intentionally for men?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer:

Not allowed Namaz will be batil

Question:Is our wuzu jaiz if we have applied hair oil?

Ayatollah:N/A

Answer:

Oil is an obstacle for washing and masah therefore wash the hair before wudhu.