Maulana Syed Ali Zafar Zaidi
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Name: Maulana Syed Ali Zafar Zaidi
Age: NIL
Location: Mwanza, Tanzania
Expertize: Islamic Philosophy, Aqaid, Fiqh, Quranic Sciences, International politics
Question:Mujhe puchna tha aapse k mera beta 8 mahine ka hone aaya hai. Wo raat me roz sone ko rota hai. Meri biwi or meri dono ko raat me neend nahi milti, fir agle din kaam rehta hai to dono ko taklif hoti hai. Abhi ramzan bhi hai to der raat se soti hai to sahiri me uthna fir sahri banana, usse nahi ho paata hai, tabyat b kharab hojati hai uski. Jese k aaj raat abhi jaakar mera beta soya hai, raat bhar pareshan kiya hai. To iske liye Humlogne online padhe hai to wo log kehte hai k bacho ko sleep habbit banani padhti hai, jese k 1 time karlo k roz ye time par lights band, koi aawaz nahi honi chhiye, bache ko thoda behla or goodnight bolkar chod de use sone ko. Bache starting me sone ko naatak karte hai, bohat royega but ignore karo. 10 min tak ro hi rha hai to fir jao uske paas usko behlao, uthao mat, or sone kaho goodnight bolo or fir chodkar aajao. Ese karne se unhe khudse sone ki habbit bhi hogi or wo royega b nahi sone ko. To mujhe jaan na tha k kya ye tarika hum apna sakte hai, islamic way se? Ye zulm to nahi bache par?


Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: This is part of life so please don’t worry. Yeh bahot common hi bat hai aur shayad inhin qurbaniyon ki wajah Se Allah be Qur’an main jab bhi apni ebadat ka zikr kiya hai to fauran waledain ke sath neki ka hukm diya. Jab jab main poori raat jagta tha to apne Waledain ke liye Du’a karta the ke aaj is bachche ne ehsas dila diya ke meri parwarish main hamare waledain ne kitni zahmaten bardash ki woh bhi uswaqt jab zindagi ki basic needs bhi easily available nahin hoti thin.
Lehaza is cheez ko nemat janiye aur aisa magane kijia ke Pahle 3-4 hrs aapki wife so le aur aap apna kam kijia agar bachcha rota hai to aap use bheech main dekhte rahe aur iske bad aise hi aapki wife kare.
Islam main jab bachcha 5 yrs ke around ho jaye to ab usko alag sulana chahiye yahan tak ke uske siblings ke sath bhi nahin sulana chahiye.
Magar aaj agarche Europe aur America main 1 din ke bachche ko bhi alag hi sulate hain. Magar yahan bhi psychologist is baat ko mante hain ke jab bachcha physically parent’s se touch hota hai to usmain jo mohabbat jagti hai woh kisi aur tariqe se develope nahin ki ja sakti.
Baherhal kisi ne khoob kaha hai Allah ne waledain ko zamin per apni mohabbat aur ulfat ka mazhar qarar diya hai.

Agar che shariat main aisi koi cheez nahin hai ke agar bachche ko alag sulaya jaye to us per zulm hoga. Nahin, uske sone ka bed pass main lagaya ja sakta hai aur fir thori thori der per bachche ke seene per hath rakhne se usko ahsas hota hai ke koi mere pass hai. Aap bahot se tariqe try kar sakte hain ismain koi burayee nahin hai yahan tak ke log bahot chote bachchon ko bhi separate room main sulate hain to aisa nahin hai ke aisa karna bachche per zulm hai haan bas itna zaroor ghaurtalab hai ke 1.5 yrs ya 2 yrs ke bachche ko 8-10 hrs kisi daycare ya babysiter ke pass chorhne je jaisi awlad ki tarbiyat hogi fir un waledain ko future main complain karne ka haq nahin rah jata.
Question:Mujhe niyaz or fateha ka proper tareeka bataye.

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Waise Nazr ka matlab hai ek tarah se kisi cheez ka qarar dena is cheez ke baad jab uski murad poori ho jaye misal ke taur per aapne nazr mani ke agar aapka koi kam poora ho jaye to aap ek din roza rakhenge lehaza ab agar aapki Murab Poori ho gayee to ab aap per us din Roza rakhna wajib ho jayega.
Ab choonke hamare samajh main Fateha aur Niyaz ek hi mana main hai lehaza Fateha ka waise to matlab hai Sura Al Fateha ( surah al Hamd)
Iska treeqa eh hai ke his Imam ki Niyaz dila rahe hain pahle Salawat 3 baar parhen aur fir Bismillah parh kar Sura Hamd 1 baar aur fir 3 baar Sura Ikhlas parhen aur fir 3 baar Salawat parh kar kahen is Niyaz ko Hadiya kiya Imam Jafar Sadiq (a.s) ya Panjatan e Pak ko ya 14 Masumin ko (jis Masum ki Nazr ki Niyyat ho) uske baad jo aapki hajat ho usko talab kijia.

Ab agar kisi apne Marhoom ke liye Niyaz hai to kahe Marhum ka nam aur 14 Masumin ke wasile se is Nazr ka sawab Hadiya kiya ( Marhum ka naam)
Question:Doing wudhu wearing najis clothes invalidates it or not?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: No not at all unless the Najis clothe has Najasat which can touch Wudhu parts other wise there is no relation of Najis clothes with Wudhu. Wudhu could be invalidate if a person 1-passes wind from rear.2- using toilet either for pooping or urination 3- sound sleep 4-Fainting or unconsciousness 5- having sexual relation with his/her spouse.
Question:Does Islam allow us to have relationship with a girl? What is the appropriate age to do so.


Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: According to Islamic Shariaya when a girl becomes 9 years old ( according to Lunar calendar) and a boys becomes 15 then they are BALIGH ( adult) not in this condition both should not have any type of relation with any na mahram which could lead their relation to a Haram act. But they can talk each other do work each other as long as they follow the rules.
Now what you are asking has no place in Islam. The only thing I can say is if any boy likes a girl and a girl likes a boy and they have decided to become life partner,s they can do Nikah or if possible do Mu’ta with the permission of girl’s father and then they can talk each other and understand each other then after that can do Permanent Marriage.
Question:I am a Shia and the girl which I love is also a shia. She also loves me. We only talk to each other and have no sexual talk or act between us. Also we don't do other haram acts. And mutah is difficult for her and our family will not allow us to do nikkah at this age. So is it good to continue this or what should we have to do ?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Alhamdolillah good you follow the Sharia but it’s clear that none of the Islamic laws can authoriz you or any man or woman that they can have any close relationship (while they touch each other) other than a formal relationship e.g two employees working in same office or two students in a same school or college. So this excuse has no value that your parents are not agreeing so you can’t do neither temporary marriage nor permanent therefore you can have relationship because you both are na mahram for each other. Therefore the best solution in your case is that you can assure her that you want to marry her and when conditions will be favorable for you, you will propose her officially. Till then you should avoid to having such relation which could bring down yours and hers dignity in the society. Otherwise there will be many issues if you are neither office colleague nor class mates then on what basis you talk and meet each other? When Islam says that a young woman should not say salam to a na mahram man then how I can tell you that you can continue your relationship even if it has no bad intention
Question:Does listening to sex story makes gusul wajib?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: No just listening can’t make Ghusl wajib, Ghusl e Janabat becomes wajib after ejaculation of semen either it has done by Halal way or Haram way or it happens while a person is sleeping or awake.
But listening sex stories is haram.
Question:Digital platforms like paytm,amazon etc offered rewards in form of 5%cashback, 20%or 100% cashbacks when we use certain debit cards, credit card etc to do recharge or shopping etc. Is this cashbacks halal or not?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: You know better the system of credit and debit card
Actually it’s not an extra or reward money which they give us with the name of bonus and offer etc. When we pay by credit to a seller they charge service charges from seller and that’s why seller fixes his price for any goods keeping all these charge so as much as a customer uses the credit or debit card they both ( seller and bank) make their profit therefore there is nothing wrong to get this offer or bonus money. At the end it’s yours and ours.
Question:Any books on etiquettes of islam that you recommend?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: There are many book on Islamic etiquettes
I recommend you please read treatise of Imam Ali bin Hussain(a.s) please follow this link:

https://www.al-islam.org/treatise-rights-risalat-al-huquq-imam-ali-zayn-al-abidin

https://www.al-islam.org/printpdf/book/export/html/28752
Question:What is the proper method to brush during fasting?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: There is no special method has prescribed for brushing ones tooth but it is very important that there should not remain any food material in between our teeth therefore it’s better to brush at suhoor time. Also during brushing we should be careful that the tooth paste should not pass below the throat otherwise fast will become invalid.
Question:Smelling and tasting invalidates fasting or not?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: Smelling can’t invalidate fast. If anything which has been tasted but not swollen, then fast is ok.
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