Very angry and upset with my mother because she said and did something to me that really upset me. I suffer from depression and major anxiety knowing all this and the medication that I take my mother still misbehaved with me. My state of mind is very sensitive and my mother does not help with the matter .She also talks to me and upset me deliberately and makes me look like a disrespectful Daughter amongst my family members . If I don’t speak to my mum will I get punished? Will my prays not be accepted. I just don’t want to see her because she upsets me what do you advice ?

I fully empathise with you. I also understand that you go through depression and anger outbursts.
However, your mother is your mother no matter what.You still need to respect her. You cannot stop your relationship with your mother.
Find out why she does what she does and what makes you angry.
Islam gives a very high regard for noble etiquettes and you need good communication. Try and find someone who con mediate between the two of you.
Pray to Allah to help you and your mother make your mother happy and find out the root cause of all this.

What advice can I give to someone who is struggling to surpress anger at home and gets very irritable due to stress they are going through in their personal life? How can they gain sabr and control/help themselves?

Best way to control this anger bouts is through dhikr of salawat and remaining in wudhu. but one needs to have faith in this. also to go through self reflection and self introspection as to why one is getting angry

I would like to know if its ok to consult a male doctor . I am afraid for purpose of proper diagnosis i may have to expose my leg upto knee... i have checked there is no female doctor under that specialty department.

If it is very necessary for a male doctor to examine you, then medically he can. as long as he doesn't come in contact with your body, and uses the medical tools to examine you and does not see your private parts .
this is if you really need to be seen by a male specialist

What are the rules if a male gynocologist doctor helps in delivering a baby. The mother conceived with Allah’s mercy by getting a treatment from this male doctor. This is of course when there was no female doctor available with that speciality.
Or out of ignorance if the couple decided to go this doctor.
How can one repent..

Do sincere istighfar.
Allah is ever so Merciful

I would like to know if its ok to consult a male doctor . I am afraid for purpose of proper diagnosis i may have to expose my leg upto knee... i have checked there is no female doctor under that specialty department.

If it is very necessary for a male doctor to examine you, then medically he can. as long as he doesn't come in contact with your body, and uses the medical tools to examine you and does not see your private parts .
this is if you really need to be seen by a male specialist

What are the rules if a male gynocologist doctor helps in delivering a baby. The mother conceived with Allah’s mercy by getting a treatment from this male doctor. This is of course when there was no female doctor available with that speciality.
Or out of ignorance if the couple decided to go this doctor.
How can one repent..

Do sincere istighfar.
Allah is ever so Merciful

Can you tell me the concept of standing close to each other while performing salah like they say feet's should meet each other feet's and same for shoulders.

You need to fill the huge gaps in between the mussalleen and try to be shoulder to shoulder. showing unity and solidarity in humility

How does one help loved one, that is obsessed with work all the time? They can not switch off, they can spend hours chatting to work colleagues. But always tired or can not hold an conversation without it leading to an argument.

This is a very important question and needs a lot of thought to it. You would need a family counsellor or a mediator to help you start afresh through positive communication reevaluate your priorities in life and your marriage. how old is your marriage?

The marriage is X years. The loved one is the one that is the only one working. Has a lot of responsibility, as they provide for their own family, as well as spouse.

Perhaps you would need to get your local religious scholar involved for mediating. X years of marriage is still very fresh and you really need to understand his psyche and begin to work own your positive communication skills with your husband.
at this point I can only suggest:
1. Praying for your marriage to blossom
2. To be God conscious at all times.
3. Positive communication skills.
4. Trust in God

How does one help loved one, that is obsessed with work all the time? They can not switch off, they can spend hours chatting to work colleagues. But always tired or can not hold an conversation without it leading to an argument.

This is a very important question and needs a lot of thought to it. You would need a family counsellor or a mediator to help you start afresh through positive communication reevaluate your priorities in life and your marriage. how old is your marriage?

The marriage is X years. The loved one is the one that is the only one working. Has a lot of responsibility, as they provide for their own family, as well as spouse.

Perhaps you would need to get your local religious scholar involved for mediating. X years of marriage is still very fresh and you really need to understand his psyche and begin to work own your positive communication skills with your husband.
at this point I can only suggest:
1. Praying for your marriage to blossom
2. To be God conscious at all times.
3. Positive communication skills.
4. Trust in God

I have many menstrual pain and the doctor referred me to a gynecology they want to do a internal echo because they think that i have a sickness and they can see it only with that echo. Im a virgin and not married and my question is if i can do the internal echo or not. Is that haram ?

According to what you have mentioned, if there is a necessity to be examined by a gynecologist, it is permissible to get the test done.
As long as you have asked for a 2nd opinion from specialists than you are allowed to go for the test for further investigation.

I wanted to ask if it is possible for women who is divorced(kulah) by a (REMOVED) Maulana and stayed away from husband from past X years and a week back she has got divorced (Kulah) re read by Shia maulana to perform nikah or she is supposed to wait for 4 months period?

The Divorce has to be reread and will be proceeded by the Eddah period after pronunciation of Talaq Al Khula. Divorce cannot be recited if one is in her monthly periods.

Can you please list me out much and more details regarding nafl prayers. exact timings and if 8 rakah for zohr is it to be performed just like obligatory zohr namaz divided 4*4??

Yes the nafila of dhohr and asr is just like the ritual Salaat that we pray wajib everyday. The timings for dhuhr and asr is before the actual dhuhr and asr salaat