Muallimah Munira Kiramati
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Name: Muallimah Munira Kiramati
Age: NIL
Location: Qum, Iran
Expertize: Ahkam
Question:Bohot pareshann hun. Mujhy smjh nahi arha kya karun. Mera namaz me dil nahi lagrha, me wazu kr rhi hun to lagrha hai galat kiya aur wazu sy pehly bohot bar puri bismillah parh rhi hun qk mujhy lgrha hai k mene glt parha. Aur namaz me bhi ase horha hai. Dil bhi nahi lagrha aur lgrha hai galat parha hai to bar bar parh rhi hun. Bataein me kya karun?


Ayatollah:N/A

Answer: This is the disease of waswaas and in order to get rid of it, don't pay attention to any of your doubts, pray your namaz quickly, keep something as a sign to help you with number of rakaats completed. You will also need to contact a counselor to help you with bringing this under control
Question:What is the ruling on posting pictures of yourself as a women where you can see the face or without the face back

Ayatollah:Khamenei

Answer: This is dependent on the 'urf' (custom) of where you reside. Generally not posting pictures is better however if the hijab is not practiced and the limits of jurisprudence are not abided by, then it becomes haram. If the limits of religion are observed, one should note that such an action may result in other problems or sins for example can cause another to get attracted etc.
In general, if one knows that an act would lead to another act which is haram or may cause problems to arise, then carrying out the said act is problematic however if no problem would arise then as per religious law, there is no problem even though it may not be recommended (to do the particular act)
Question:What's the kuffarh of female who touched the quranic verses accidentally or in carelessness while being in state of hayd?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: There is no kaffara.It was a mistake. Just ask for forgiveness
Question:My parents did not properly teach me how to do wudu and say prayers as well as do ghusal properly. My mother is a sunni and Dad a shia, so I mixed up rulings as was taught to me. I used to do sunni wudu and ghusal and pray salat the wrong way without tashud in second rak'aa. And I didnt have any proper resource and knowledge to understand rulings as i was little.

Now that when I read the proper method of doing wudu, prayer and ghusal, may i know if I have to make up for my messed up wudu, salat and ghusal for 21+ years?

As for fasting, I can't remember when I started to fast properly (maybe when I was 15), I never fasted for my missed fast as well as i did'nt know the rulings, now that I know the ruling I have roughly calculated my due fasts and am making up all of my Qadah fasts? May I know if I am doing it correctly or should I have to pay kafarah as well for missed fasts from the time I was 9 years?

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: As for the qadha of fasts, the least amount of fasts you are sure you have not fasted, only give qadha for them and in addition to that, you have to pay kaffara e takhir which is 750 grams of food to a poor person for each fast not kept and qadha not done before the month of Ramadan of the following year.
In regards to namaz, if you believed yourself to be Sunni then there is no qadha upto the time you believed yourself to be a Shi'a since you prayed following the Sunni method but if you thought of yourself as Shi'a, then you have to do qadha of those namaz prayed wrong
Question:I wanted to know if there is any alternative for skipping the nafl prayers?
As once I heard about the alternative for skipping the nafl of all the daily prayers is a salah named salah at-tawabeen but not sure about it as I heard it in one of the videos made on Ayatullah Bahjat.

So if there is any such prayer can you please-help me know more about it in detail.

Ayatollah:Sistani

Answer: I have not heard of a prayer by the name of Namaz tawabeen. There is however a discussion on whether it is important to pray qadha instead of nawafil and according to some, qadha should be prayed.
Question:My question is that in the bikni wax is it allowed to wax the areas between hips by some female?


Ayatollah:N/A

Answer: Looking at the private parts by another, be it by a woman, is haraam
Question:If I bought a set suits from a woman total cost is around 3k and I paid the amount but that sets of suits never reached me, then later i bought two suits of rs 1500 and I ask her about the suits that did not reach me, she was unable to help in the earlier so I did not pay her 1500 but the suits reached to me. I this illegal for me to not pay that 1500? Please help


Ayatollah:N/A

Answer: If the seller posted the clothes to you and it was lost by the postal service then the postal service is liable not the seller.
Question:I have been addicted to watching porns & from two years have starting mastutbation as well

At age of 5 years one of my cousin used to do bad things with me then at age of 7 or 8 i was sexually harrased. Then at age of 10 or 11, I was first time introduced to watching porn by one of my friend who used to live in our neighbourhood.

I have asked forgiveness so many times, made so many promises,cried to allah, cried to Imam Mahdi that I won't hurt him again but I again break promises.

Please I need help, I want to get rid of it.

Ayatollah:N/A

Answer:

We humans have not been created infallible. We have some capabilities in us, in our fitra and that is to worship Allah however we are not infallible and are prone to making mistakes. There are only a few chosen people who are infallible however the rest of us have the possibility of making mistakes, wrongdoings and even committing a sin. Therefore if a person commits a sin, first she/he should not rebuke herself/himself but should be hopeful of Allah's mercy. When I say rebuke, I mean regretting the past and becoming hopeless about the future as well. However rebuking of the soul for committing a wrong and going against the wishes of Allah is good (without becoming hopeless and only to correct oneself).
A person should know that when they sin, shaytan comes to them and encourages one to become hopeless of Allah mercy. When one gets thoughts where he blames himself for a sin committed and becomes hopeless of Allah's mercy, these are satanic thoughts.

In cases of masturbation, many times, the thoughts a person gets, thoughts where a person blames themselves, these become the cause for a person being unable to leave the sin (of masturbation) and continuously gets caught in a circle of committing the same act.

Apart from this, a person should control their thoughts and should try to correct them. There are a few things that a person should observe through which the paths will open to gain the strength to let go of a particular act/sin:

-Diet - Pay attention to your diet. Try to eat at particular times the right meals where the food is not a lot and it should not be very strong. The food should be less and enough to eliminate one's hunger. The meals should be taken at specific times and outside of these times, extra food should not be consumed hence gaining control over one's food. Foods which have strong/heavy spices and a lot of meat, especially red meat increase the problem hence consume foods which have less meat and should not have strong spices. You can take a meal plan from a dietician.

- A person should take part in specific activities such as professional sports such as running, swimming. The sport should be one where a person would get very tired

- A person should also take part in professional artistic activities. Any activity that you like should be done at a specialised and professional level.

In situations such as yours, professional sports and arts play a very important role.

- Fasting. Try to fast every Monday and Thursday. Fasting is very effective in controlling and subsiding the attraction to masturbation and the thrill after.

- One should write past memories in exact detail on paper and then tear it up and throw it away. Do that again for the second time. Write in detail and tear up the paper and throw it away every time you get thoughts of the past. Do this as many times as needed till the thoughts of the past do not disturb you anymore. After this, anything that comes up that bring those thoughts to you, try to repeat this sentence 'Whatever has happened however from now on, Allah can help me. Whatever happened was not in my hand and whatever problem I have got but now Allah can help me and from now on my life is in my hands.' Also recite verses of the Qur'an to yourself and repeat those sentences and try to know/understand that whatever is not in one's hand, God does not punish therefore from now on try to correct your actions and work on the paths to letting go of this particular act/sin of masturbation.

- Early marriage. It is better for those who masturbate to get married early. Reduce a bit expectations one has of marriage and get married quickly and there is absolutely no need to inform one's partner of the past.

- Select friends who will help you go towards Allah and cause one to not go towards sin as it has been mentioned (in the narrations) to sit with those who remind you of Allah. Hence friends should be religious people and those who are not religious should be left.

- Another thing that can help a person to move away from masturbation is medicines. A psychiatrist who you can refer to will be able to suggest the correct medication to help with controlling the urge to masturbate.

- Just making a promise to Allah to not to commit the sin again is not very helpful since ever everytime a person returns back to the act, she/he will rebuke themselves. The above tips mentioned will be helpful but don't make a promise with Allah. Instead keep a penalty for yourself such as one of monetary value. So for example you keep a penalty for yourself that if you do this act again, you will give a specific amount in sadaqa. Or the penalty can be something that is hard for you to do or something that you don't enjoy doing. Therefore instead of making a promise with Allah, make a promise to yourself that if you do this act again, you will penalise yourself with a specific penalty. This will be more helpful. Insha'Allah Allah will help you in letting go of this act.
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